[QUOTE=grey;262819][COLOR="Black">Then again am I overthinking by reading and researching all together? I can't think of anyone else who would, and they've managed to hit the nail on the head first time.
Also I'm not reeeally comfortable talking to my mum in general so, I don't think I'd ever be ready to tell her that unless I was 25 or something :')[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

Hello, again,

I'm placing your text in a box in order to make it easier on the eyes and brain to read. Please do not color your text and make it tiny. It is pretty-yet annoying.

A lot of girls are not comfortable talking with a parent, yet your mother and father are your biggest supporter. If you find it difficult to discuss matters, then do everything in your power not to do stupid idiotic irresponsible things.

> Then again am I overthinking by reading and researching all together?

What are you asking? Please clarify.

Information gathering is a good thing, this is why there are so many articles and discussions on all manner of topics related to life, love, romance, and, sex, on this site. Brandye and I have given you some important articles to start. Next, read all of the other articles listed in the Index and add all of the information to what you already know. Knowledge is empowering! Go for it!

Please! Please use standard size black type. Your fancy grey color and small font makes it just about impossible to read.

[QUOTE=;262811][COLOR="Black">Well, I'm 14 and I've been with my 15 year old boyfriend like, 2 months now and we're both illegal to have sex. I know what you're thinking - don't do it. But then again, we've talked about it so often, we were so close to it once, but I kept saying no, your mum is downstairs, and she walked in on us, our naked bodies hidden underneath the duvet. Thankfully we didn't. We've said how we're both ready and recently I've been so aroused by anything, even this website! It's shocking but it just makes me think of him and how i want him. I've read up on here the disaster stories of underaged sex and I told him about it, he just said "Please don't compare us to people who have got it wrong..." HMM. But yeah. We're both desperate and it's not like I can turn around and tell him I'm waiting until I'm legal, 'cos 1) I don't think I could wait that long 2) it would really disappoint him. We've fooled around quite a bit and I do think there is huuge amounts of love there, he pleasures me so much but I'm not THAT big a fan of foreplay, I think it's 'cos I'm stupidly shy, I like it when he does it to me? :L I tried it once but it felt wrong. It's imitating sex, if you're gonna' do it, do it. Should I go for it?[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

Welcome to the teen years and raging hormones. Every person who was a teenager, every person who IS a teen, every person who will become a teen has or will have these same experiences. Part of the maturing process is physical, another part is mental. When it comes to the latter, you have to learn how to manage your feelings and compulsions and what it is to become an adult. The entire transformation takes about a decade!

I recommend that you read each article listed in the Index, found at the top of the main screen. You have much to learn and add to what you already know. A case and point is your statement regarding foreplay. Foreplay is important for men and critically important for women. Learn why and you will become a big fan of the process someday.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

Read the sticky "Am I Ready?" It includes physical, social and psychological effects that are quite common. You are not "desperate;" you simply get aroused easily.

The biggest issue to deal with, next to protection, is are you ready to look your mother in the eye and say, "Mum, I am pregnant." Until you can be comfortable doing that, you are not quite ready. There is always a possibility of pregnancy when a penis is in a vagina. Before we take one into us we need to have an exit strategy - what if I do miss my next period?

No young couple wants to be compared to those who "got it wrong" including those who got it wrong. You want to play an adult game; you need to know the adult rules.

Yeah if you're going to pick a different text color, you really need to pick one that's bright instead of light, and contrasts starkly with the light blue that is the wallpaper here instead of mimicking it. Better yet, just go for the plain black as DD2 suggests. I'll be honest, I wouldn't have bothered to read it if DD2 hadn't recopied it.

I do, however, think I know what you mean by "am I overthinking?" Many people struggle with overthinking sex. They feel like their brain gets in the way and doesn't allow them to relax into the pleasure. They feel like it's taking them too long to learn to let go and just go for it. Especially early on in their sexual "career", it's natural to ask that question about yourself. IMHO, at your age and the length of your relationship, I think it's smart to be asking yourself whether you're ready before you jump into it. If you were older and had been with the guy longer, I'd be more inclined to agree with the "overthinking".

Tell me you at least were wise enough to be on birth control and have him use a condom....