my girlfriend and i have been together for over a year now and we have great sex.
the only thing that bothers me is that she doesnt like being on top. she says she feels too much pressure to perform when she is on top. she has done it a few times but confessed afterwards she only does it because she knows i like it.
i dont want her to do it only for that reason and i told her i want her to like it too. she said she only likes because she sees me enjoying it. she's also told me she's never had an orgasm while on top, mainly because she is concentrating too much on making sure it's good for me...
i would really like to make her feel more confortable with being on top and have her enjoying it as much as she enjoys everything else we do.
any advice?
thanks
Suck her nipples and slide a vibrator down between you. Let her grind on that while she is on top. She'll go nuts.
I agree with Mordrig on that.It will definetly drive her nut's.
your sweet, i think you should go w/ the vibrator thing,
unless she wants to actually please you and not a plastic toy.. lol
just make sure shes comfortable with it before you decide to pull it out and suprise her.. lol
Yeh, a vibrater is nice but I wouldn't just take it out one day unless you are sure she'll be fine with it. I think the easiest way to get a vibrator is go shopping, lets say to walmart (which now sells vibrator rings, its for guys but it will work with anything cuz its a "vibrator"), so take her out shopping and say u wanna go look for some condoms or lube (whatever u use) and just buy the vibrator as a fun joke to try out. This worked for me :)
Oh and my GF had a lil problem with beein on top too, but she bounced up and down and figured out on how to move to plese herself too :) She does a weird back and forth slide which makes me really happy cuz I like it too.
Okay nice idea but try this first.
You sit with your back up against the headboard and have her straddle your lap and slide you inside of her. This closer face-to-face action makes the position more intimate as you can also kiss and whisper in her ears and tell her how marvelous she is with your hands caressing her and running your fingers through her hair. Using her knees as a fulcrum she can move easily as well so as to rub her G-Spot with the head of your penis. Got the idea?