My girlfriend has been really stressed out and as a result, her sex drive seems to have come to a complete halt. If I am lucky we have sex maybe once every 2 weeks, where as we used to at least every other day or so.
She is in college and lives about an hour away so we usually only get to see each other Friday-Sunday unless I make a drive down for a visit. She is so busy with school and studying, she seems to be too tense to get in the mood. :cool:
Have any ideas on how I can help her relax? Also, what makes you feel a little less stressed out?
Find opportunities to hold her and to cuddle.
Make no demands, sexual or otherwise.
If sex is to happen, it will. If sex is not to happen, at least you have demonstrated to her that you understand, that you care, that you are there for her, and that not every weekend encounter has to end up in bed.
Doing these things will do more for strengthening your relationship than anything else a typical male with designs on one thing can hope to accomplish.