Hi everyone, I have a bit of a problem and I dont know whats wrong with me. This can't be normal because I never hear of anyone else experencing what I go through.
Alright, ummm... where to start... well, in a month that me and my GF have sex I feel fine, up until the days where her period draws near. Then I start to get really nervious, I get edgy and withdrawn from people, and I just freak out over everything. This isn't on just the times where a risk has been involved, this is everytime! In this month we had sex a couple times and I'm always VERY careful. I we use spermacide condomes and i never cum inside her. I always thourghy check the condom before and after too. We did nothing wrong this month and I'm starting to lose it because shes a day late. The fact that shes not regular doesn't help, theres beens times where shes been over a week off. Does anyone know whats wrong with me or how I can feel more comfortable. Sorry to rant on like that, but this time of the month is hell for me 
PS. Shes not on the pill and refuses to go on it.
Sun, 12/14/2003 - 05:10
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Her Period and sex
Welcome to the world of sexual reality! The only TRUE form of safe sex is NOT having sex....so, the best you can do is do all you can do to prevent becomming pregnant..but there's no 100% fool proof way.
Now, if she goes on the pill, you can expect her periods to be much more ON TIME....so the pill, WITH a condom will be a very strong preventative form of birth control!.
Other than that.....you'll have a monthly anxiety attack until you either marry her, or learn to just do your best and let it go!
having her worry about it too will just make her nervous.. and that can cause her to be late.. i think
I'd agree. It can be normal to worry, but if this worry is having a large affect on your ability to function in life, I would question whether the sexual relationship is worth the anxiety it is causing you now?
You know, it's normal to feel that. Some people get nervous about stuff like that. Actually, a day ebfore I'm supposed to get my period, I start freaking out. And I'm on a pill, we use spermicide condoms, and my bf doesn't cum in me. Talk about a real basket case. So don't worry, you're fine.