i've been with my g/f a while now, and we are very sexually active, in the strangest of places sometimes! but she is on her period now, and this is very annoying, as it restricts the things we can do with out making a lot of mess, is there anything that anyone can suggest we try, i so desperatly want to please her as i feel guilty when she gives but doesn't recive, for me, her pleasure is most important and im willing to try anything, i just need some tips, if any one can help then please do
Thu, 03/27/2003 - 00:52
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On her period
You can try by pleasing her with other things instead of just sex, you know, like small gifts and stuff.
Or try having sex in the shower, but like i said in another post, that is not easy, but you can try.
geez
just wait out the five days it wont kill u... it just makes when u finally get to that much better
Well you can kiss her .hug her ,feel her breasts ,get her hot and finger her, play gently with her clitoris,and when she gets light, lick her clit wont kill you,have sex some women get rid of there cramps ,this way and .have not to unpleasant a time with there periods, its all in your hands ,let her know you love her and her body,and hugg her a lot
If she leaves her tampon in while you're fooling around, you can play with her clit and even go down on her without worrying about the "mess." Also, while it can be a little sloppy, sex during the period isn't all that bad. Some women even find it more pleasurable at that time (although, personally, I find that it's easier for him to accidently hurt me during sex. Different strokes and all that.) You may want to put a towel on the bed so that you don't stain the sheets, though.
thanks for the replys guys, it should be a lot of help im sure. we have had sex while she has been on her period before,. and she did enjoy it, she said it was a lot more intense, but we did have to cover the bed in towels and she got a bit upset by the site of her blood being all over me, so thats one we wont be trying again foir a while. but thanks again for the advice, i'll just acarry on pleasing her in non sexual ways until its over
Don’t tell me you’re giving up that easily! Have her put a tampon in, and try dry sex. I know I posted somewhere…Mr Link…could you assist?
I've also heard that if you go in the water while you're on your period your flow stops temporarily, but I don't know how true that is.
Find out why her blood all over you freaked her out so much. It's not the blood that you think it is… Brandye can you help with that one please?
You can also go down on her while she has a tampon in, or you can just go for it without her using one, just put a towel down.
As for personal experience, I've done just spreading out a towel, having my boyfriend rub me on the outside of my underwear while wearing a tampon, and dry sex.
If there’s anything else just post again and don’t get discouraged so easily.
sorry xx22xx, i know i gave up easily, but it appeared that i wasnt going to have any more luck here then elsewhere, i didnt want to start moaning about the lack of good advice, because advice from the heart is always good advice, even if it does apply more to ourselves then to anyone else when it does so.
Its a solid relationship, and at the moment we have been content with just being with each other, i discovered how clitoral stimulation works wonders
and this has given me a chance to re-explore other parts of her body to find out what she likes, we are planning to try that dry sex idea at the next oppurtunity, but im not so sure about the bath thing.
I read once that having sex in the bath wasnt a good idea as the heat of the water can desensitize the penis, and therefore take a long time, and may make us both very frustrated.
I have started looking into why the blood bothered her, as the sight of blood has no effect on her normally (she is a biology student who loves disecting things), i think just the sight of my penis covered in her blood was the problem, the fact that she thought i might get upset or embarressed by it, she didnt like it, and this could be an example of society conditoning people to think that periods are a subject to be shunned.
So my apologies for giving up so easily, i just didnt want to offend any advice i read, so i left it at that. we now have more ideas to try and some interesting times will be had im sure...
Use Instead!
Instead is used in place of a tampon. It fits up very close to the cervix. There is no blood during sex, because Instead catches it. You change it as you would a tampon. I just slip one in a few hours before my husband gets home so any residual blood has time to be eliminated from the vagina. These are terrific!
The only store I've seen them in is Target. Don't know why K-mart and Wal Mart don't carry these little gems!
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I don't know why they would sell them in K-mart, Walmart, or Target! It seems like something you would get from a pharmacy, you know? But I've never heard of those...maybe someone can find info online about 'Instead' and post it here. I'll try to get it too.
i found it
interesting...ive never heard of these either hmmm
Click here: INSTEAD®
grrrrrrrr
the link didn't work
heres the addy
http://www.softcup.com/
Thanks too much!
you can always finger her if you like, its not too messy, you can play with her breasts, you can lick her neck, all of that combined will definately get her horny, then you can have sex and play with her while you're having sex to give her an orgasm.
great tips guys, all of the above seems to work amazingly well, apart from sex in the shower, which just DID NOT. Not sure why tho, we were both very much up for it, Maybe its just one of those things. I've said a couple of times now never mind, lets just do it, and that has worked well also.
Oh yeah- The instead! idea, we don't have those in Britain, or if we do, Ive never seen them, But we do have wonderful little things called 'Keepers'. Sounds like the same kinda thing.