Hi all,
Well this is rally hard to talk about as you can gues but i would realy like to know what people say. I had my girlfriend around the other day, and well no need to guess but my hands did go wondering. And also in that day i had sex with her and she lost her virginity well actually to be honest we had sex twice about 2 hours after the first time. And when we wasnt having sex i mean my hands where wondering ALL day and i was trying my best but she didnt come not even once, and from what she has told me she has never come before. She started her period the next day aswell, its just im really lost. Does anyone have any sugestion as to how i might make her come?
Chris
Thanx for anything u can do or say.
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Not too many women orgasm from their first time... or first several times.
Plus, groping a boob and sticking your penis in a vagina does NOT = orgasm
there is a lil more to it than that :)
Like EEK said, there are lots of stickies in the New to Sex section w/ lots of tips and techniques!~!
get her to check herself out and for her to find out what turns her on and have her show you that really the only way anyone can learn, she has to know herself before you can know her.
Hello Elliot,
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[QUOTE=invisibleelliot] we had sex twice about 2 hours after the first time. And when we wasnt having sex i mean my hands where wondering ALL day and i was trying my best but she didnt come not even once, and from what she has told me she has never come before. [/QUOTE]
Here are links to articles that address your questions and concerns:
The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
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Try reading the Sticky posts - we have covered this topic many times already.
she's probably sore after having your hands "wandering" all day before and after her first time. try giving her a rest :rolleyes:
As said, there are numerous stickies to address this but don't sweat it.
If it's your first couple of times don't expect to get her off. With my girlfriend it was a good few practices before I was ever able to do it, it just takes time to learn what buttons to push on her.