Ok, my gf and I are now having sex without a condom so some sort of lubrication is needed. Sometimes dry sex is ok if were in the mood but like tonight, we wernet so I need a suggestion. She is uaually already kind of wet, but not wet enough, should I just go down on her to make her wet enough? Any suggestions are welcome.
Tue, 12/28/2004 - 05:30
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Her getting wet?
does that not dry too fast?
Spit will work. Either eat her out or have her go down on you for a little, or both
some one help me!!!
Okay, so all those kind of lub's would help but know lets say that we're at a party and, oh no, no lub around, guess I'll have to use the old trusty spit, will that help? Or what do yah think about baby oil?
I think Astroglide is the best. Certainly helped me a lot.
Some prefer "wet". Some do just fine with KY Jelly. Others like stuff like the warming liquid.
And it's just best to always have stuff like that handy. Other types of "lube", like vaseline, will wear down the condom and cause it to break.
Hey well I some questions. What is the best lubrication? and if you don't have any in handy what can you use?
[QUOTE=Quote (monie @ Dec. 28 2004,09:45)]She usually takes it when you're going out or something? I hope she's taking it everyday, at the same time, cause thats how its supposed to be taken...
Anyhow, definitely use some lube. Its not that expensive and not hard to use and helps a bunch to make the whole experience more pleasurable.
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Sorry to make things unclear. she does take it everyday. Thanks for the suggestions everyone.
and i'm guessing since you said you have some you've already found it, but for anyone else's info, lube is next to or in the feminine products section at the grocery store (at least where i shop). that was definitely experience, going down an aisle that already weirds me out to get something that i'm nervous about getting (i guess i'm just insecure). and unfortunately we only used it once, and at that time only for about half a second. apparently anal sex hurts really bad.
She usually takes it when you're going out or something? I hope she's taking it everyday, at the same time, cause thats how its supposed to be taken...
Anyhow, definitely use some lube. Its not that expensive and not hard to use and helps a bunch to make the whole experience more pleasurable.
Going down on her might help, but you can always go pick up some lube down at the store. It never hurts to be well lubricated. I'd personally much rather be over lubricated than endure the pain I have without it.
hope you are using another form of birth control. not preachin just saying dont go doing something foolish might regret later. not accusing but just YOU be cautious and dont get fooled her saying shes on the pill.... just as a gal knows a few tricks gals sometimes been known to use to catch herself a hubby.
on to lube options. how bout more foreplay? how bout KY? how bout just keep usin condoms?
Soumates, sorry to alarm you, she is on the pill, she usually takes it when were going out or something, I guess to prove to me she takes it all the time or something. We have some lube, I guess we will use it more often then