My girlfriend has never owned a sex toy before. We are in a distance relationship so it'd be nice to have her something to hold her over when we're apart. She's been thinking about buying something, but a bit reluctant to do so.
So I'm thinking of getting her something to surprise her with when she comes up in a couple of weeks. However, I'm not sure whether I should start with a simple, no frills vibrator, or something more elaborate. Some of them might be just plain scary looking to her, with all the clitorial stimulators and what not attached. (However, her clitoris is not super sensitive, and she likes me to go at it quite a bit). Any thoughts?
-DB
One thought, my first of the day, is to present her with a vibrator so that it can be used when the two of you are together as well as when she is alone and you are away. She should have randy thoughts of you while using it! :D
When you are together, use a homemade dildo such as a-
* candle stick
* carrot stick
* English cuccumber
These items are common enough for her not to think of them as necessarily anything special or sexual so becoming used to them in this aspect should be easier for her to do. Later, when she has been enjoying one or the other of these for awhile, you can go shopping for a real toy or two. Check out the site's home page; also, www.goodvibes.com
This is a very reputable business in San Francisco that I do not have any reservations recommending.
Whatchathink?
Oh, using on her was DEFINATELY the plan. I planned on having her already naked by the time I presented it to her.
*bzzzz*
"What's that noise?"
"shhh"
"ohh...."
The homemade options are good, but I'd like to give her a nice present to take back home with her. I think her reservations aren't really about *using* one, but about purchasing one. I think if I get it for her it makes it more "ok" and gives her less hangups about it.
So I'm just wondering if something simple is better. Or are those ones that look like they were modeled after the penis of some strange alien creature worth it?
-DB
My recommendation: Since she is on the receiving end of this present, stay with something small in diameter, and inexpensive. Once she has become accustomed to this, you can open the channels of communication and perhaps try fancier models.
As for more complex vibrators, check out the Wahl "Coil". This has a variety of interchangeable heads and is AC powered.
You can find it at the source linked.
Cool, thanks, and thanks for the source too. Time to go shopping!
-DB