Hi-
Okay i know this isn't new- but i'm just a little worried! I'm 23 years old and still a virgin. The problem is i've been seeing a man and i think things might "advance" I'm just not sure if its the right thing or not, how i should act, how to know its the right time...... i'm just so confused! Sometimes i want to have sex and it feels right, and other times i'm scared that he doesn't feel as strongly for me as i do for him......i'm so frustrated.
is all this normal? Am i thinking about it too much? Is it a big deal, or am i making too much of it all?
I know i shouldn't sleep with a man just because i don't want to lose him- but how long is fair for me to ask him to wait?
The answers to all these question are very personal. We each make our own decisions and what you are processing is all normal. Make the decision for yourself and, either way, make sure you have protection available. All women should.
if he is truly into you he can wait. it is your choice not his. just make sure you have no regrets.