i have just turned 18 and have never had sex. i masturbate a fair bit and am looking to have sex in the near future. Just one question, being uncircumsized, when i have an erection, my foreskin tightens but it does not go back over my knob. i sometimes lube up and i can pull it over my knob, but it takes a while for it to get more elastic so i can pull it over. if i try to pull it over without lube it really hurts and i cant do it. when having sex, should i pull it over my knob????can i have sex without pulling it over???? i seem to last much longer when its pulled over my knob and dont last very long when its not. Can anybody help????also, how should i put on a condom???with the foreskin pulled back over my knob or without????
thanks in advance
Sun, 05/13/2007 - 05:06
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Try this link
Also, there is another good thread referenced in the above thread.
Should help!
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Don't worry about it at all. The foreskin is very rarely a problem, you can have sex quite easily with it forward or back. It can occasionally get a little bit painful if its pulled back too far, its just a simple matter of pulling it forward again and continuing what you are doing.
As for condoms, same thing. Don't worry about the foreskin at all. Just leave it where it is and put the condom on. If you've been doing foreplay, it will be in a comfortable, ready place anyway. Whatever is natural for you.
Forget arutha's answer. For most men, the foreskin is rarely a problem. For some it can be a real problem. Read the links Demon posted for you.
> being uncircumsized, when i have an erection, my foreskin tightens but it does not go back over my knob. i sometimes lube up and i can pull it over my knob, but it takes a while for it to get more elastic so i can pull it over. if i try to pull it over without lube it really hurts and i cant do it.
Consider working with the opening of your foreskin as you describe for a few days to a week or so in order to stretch the diameter and make it move more freely. If your foreskin only partially covers the Glans then the size of the opening can often be enlarged through stretching exercises. If the design of your foreskin is such that it has a straw-like extension out in front of the Urethra, or just a small diameter opening, then you may need to have the foreskin "nicked" by your doctor.
The actual stretching of the foreskin can be accomplished either in the shower or while sitting in the bathtub. The warm water will make the skin more pliable as you work with it.
Hi mate, i have this issue, i have no problem having sex or masturbating, although when having sex a few times i have felt the foreskin go over the head but i just pop it back up as it feels unconfortable. Over the last few months i have felt that my foreskin has loosend up alot, so who knows in a few months i may be able to retract it properly, but for now its not causing an issue.
Hope this helped
The nerve endings in the Glans of an uncircumcised male are vastly more sensitive than they are with those of us who have been "cut". In addition, the foreskin has a rich supply of nerves that add to a guy's overall pleasure.
* Some guys can stand to stimulate the surface of the Glans directly
* Some guys can do this after working with the Glans over a period of time
* Others cannot stand to have the Glans touched and must always receive stimulation indirectly through the foreskin.
So, you do have options that the rest of us do not have. Lucky you.
If you prefer stimulating the Glans indirectly, then this is what works for you.
If you can stand touching and rubbing your Glans then you may find this equally or even more enjoyable.
Condoms cut down on the intensity of stimulation received. This can be improved somewhat by lubricating the Glans or Foreskin only, before rolling the condom on. The lube gives the skin more wiggle room thus transferring more stimulation.
That said, you should experiment and see what works for you. It may be that retracting the foreskin and then rolling the condom on works better than leaving it forward, thus giving you too much "insulation". In other words, if you happen to find that stimulating the Glans directly is too intense, wearing a condom with the foreskin retracted may just provide the needed amount of friction. Feel free to experiment in order to learn what works for you at different times.