ok...whenever my b/f and i get going with like kissing and stuff he tenses up and tells me that hes scared and not comfortable...now hes 20 and im 17 and he was a virgin b4 he met me...but at other times when i'm with him he seems so comfortable and relaxed...should i just give him time??
Mon, 07/14/2003 - 21:11
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help wit b/f
Yes, I think that you should just give him time. I am sure that he will eventually come around. Before you get to the kissing and what not, maybe you shoudl try and make him as comfortable as possible... A massage maybe. Or something along those lines. I don't know... Just give it a try.
Get really close... girls being close is cool. Not just like sit next to him but touch him and stuff... rub his thighs *wink* and move into his hear and neck area and say sexy things.
Drew
In 5 years from now, you'll be BEGGING to meet a guy who's not racing to jump into bed wtih you!
Enjoy this time of exploration and affection! Yes, he's nervous...give him time and let things progress at a normal pace! It will pay HUGE dividends later on!
Huh,that guy is treasure
keep him very good and wait.
I think that it is very strange how he feels uneasy around you sometimes. maybe he is recieving confliciting signs from you? it only takes an ounce of perception to totally affect what he thinks you think of him.
coming from a guy he probly hasn;t did it a lot or something maybe you just need to keep working at it