Well since your both porchorican I would suggest really getting a job and not worring about sex for a while

Talk to her about it, let her know it seriously bothers you. However don't get mad or yell at her. There are a lot of good forums on this site I think would be helpful. Why don't your girlfriend and you read all the forums together found in pleasing him, pleasing her, and new to sex first time things.

You two need to have a serious talk. love is most important in a relationship, but without a mutual healthy sex life, its just not going to work out.

Hardball...WHAT THE %&$% kind of advice was that? I'm judging by the fact that you used porchorican and told the OP to get a job, its meant as a racist remark since I have heard porchorican used several times by my skinhead friend. If not then again what the %$&# kind of advice is don't worry bout sex and get a job? At no time did the OP mention not working, and was asking what to do since his gf wouldn't finish him

I swear moronic BS that has been getting posted and the quality of members has dropped significantly. I miss the days with CW, sera, and that one dude with the mugshot for his avi.

Grey, I'm guessing your girlfriend is "Schizophrenic"? She has multiple personalities. Or is the equizofrenic something else?

My most important question is why on earth is she not on medication. Is it her choice that she doesn't want to take it? You may not care that she is but lemme tell you right now! If she isn't going to take care of her mental problems then YOU NEED TO LEAVE NOW! I don't care if you "love" her and you "don't care". You will care when she starts to physically harm you or decides to drown your kids in a bath tub. You can swear up and down it won't happen. But the last shizo I heard of who wouldn't take his pills, wound up almost killing his wife, and wandering the street as a homeless man and assaulted several random people before being caught. Conditions like shizophrenia only gets worse as you age.

Don't worry about having sex, worry about your personal health. If she isn't taking care of herself there is nothing you can do. And if she doesn't take care of her self, it will eventually start harming you. The last woman I dated who wouldn't care for herself and her mental problems (and she was dealing with sexaul abuse, not avery important medical condition) wound up tearing me to pieces and it took a toll on my life.

I have to agree 100% with Ducy on this, get the health issues squared away first. Let her know that you love her to the end of time and you want her to be healthy and live a good life. Do what you need to get her to a good place. Also in the mean time, be sure to take care of yourself. (no I don't mean to masterbate or find a hooker) but rather keep yourself healthy and in good shape and condition. Once she is regularly taking her meds and stable, you can work out the sexual relationship so much easier than you'll ever be able to under the current conditions.

If you're not willing to do this for her, then you need to move on.

Greye: "esquizofrenia" en espanol, se escribe "schizophrenia" en ingles. :)

Ducy: Schizophrenia isn't "multiple personalities". Though many people think they are the same thing, they're actually separate conditions. Schizophrenia sometimes involves delusions, but not about an alter-identity. (The only reason I latched onto this, is that my uncle is Paranoid Schizophrenic.)

Having said that, I agree with all the advice to get her health situation under control (to the ability you can, as any psychological disorder can be difficult to control), and then discuss the issues openly and honestly.

Unfortunately, those with such medical issues tend to see people who are trying to help them as a threat. Often the medicines have horrible side-effects and these make it all too likely that she will go off and stay off her medicines.

Next - do you want your children to inherit this condition? True it isn't 100% guaranteed but there is a genetic component to this condition. You may be willing to 'sacrifice' your life for this girl but can you, ethically, sacrifice your childrens' lives as well? Do you have the right to do that to them?

Finally, where did you get the idea that you have to 'sacrifice' for love at all? Tis a nonsense. I understand that you want to help this girl but only SHE can help herself - you can NOT do that for her. If she is unwilling, then all of your efforts, sacrifices, will be for naught and your life will have been wasted.

Please reconsider your position. If she does not get on her medicines and does not stay on her medicines, you should leave her. Tell her this. IF she does truly love and honor you, she will comply.

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Desafortunadamente, ésos con tales ediciones médicas tienden para ver a la gente que está intentando ayudarle como amenaza. Las medicinas tienen a menudo efectos secundarios horribles y este marca él todo el demasiado probable que ella se apague y permanecerá de sus medicinas. ¿Después - usted quisiera que sus niños heredaran esta condición? Verdad no es el 100% garantizado pero hay un componente genético a esta condición. ¿Usted puede ser dispuesto “a sacrificar” su vida para esta muchacha pero puede usted, ético, sacrificar las vidas de sus niños también? ¿Usted tiene la derecha de hacer eso a ellos? ¿Finalmente, de dónde usted consiguió la idea que usted tenga que “sacrificar” para el amor en todos? Es un absurdo. Entiendo que usted desea ayudar a esta muchacha pero solamente ELLA puede ayudarse - usted no puede hacer eso para ella. Si ella es poco dispuesta, después todos sus esfuerzos, sacrificios, estarán para la nada y su vida habrá sido perdida. Reconsidere por favor su posición. Si ella no consigue en sus medicinas y no permanece en sus medicinas, usted debe dejarla. Dígale esto. SI ella le ama y honra verdad, ella se conformará.