hey ppl. was jus wonderin if u can help me!! my bf wants to make me cum, and i would like too. when he goes down on me, and has been there for a while, i get the spasms but then they go. n i can't keep them. i was told u hav spasms before u cum..so whats rong wit me??
Wed, 07/12/2006 - 16:10
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help plzzzzz :)
I have the same problem.. my problem is that I'm scared of the O. I tense up and lose the pleasure. Try to relax as much as possible. Do you know what kegeling is? Contracting the muscles (the same ones you use when you start peeing and then stop the stream) if you get those working it can help you out.
If you've never oragasmed before you may want to try to give yourself one first either by your own hand or some sort of toy. Sometimes if you experience it yourself you're better prepared.
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