my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now. we enjoy great sex, vaginally and orally. however, he wants me to masterbate with my fingers for him. i tried it once, long before we started dating, but i was disgusted by the feeling of the inside of my vagina. does anyone have some advice on how to get over that or to even avoid it all together? clitoral stimulation alone doesn't work for me (i've tried it).
Sun, 01/25/2009 - 05:45
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help please?
what part do you find disgusting?
your finger in there? what you feel inside? the act of you doing it? that your not doing it with someone?
theres something on the other half of this website that may answer something for you.
for.http://www.sexinfo101.com/kb_mastlad.shtml
Also try clitical.com. This is a site dedicated to helping women masturbate. I have suggested it to patients.
what i dislike is the texture.i mean, there's not much to be done about that itself. i'm sorta weirded out by the act itself, but i'm willing to get over that.
the only idea i can come up with is a dildo
EDIT: try putting something on your finger like maybe a condom or rubber gloves. try putting your hand in some ice until it goes numb.
thanks i'll give those ideas a try. anything is helpful. :)
I always thought it felt nice... warm and slick lol.
Maybe just concentrate and rub your clit and lips... don't actually finger yourself?!?
I have always enjoyed the feeling of a girl and the softness, warmth, and wetness. I love to watch my wife finger and rub herself. She has never brought herself to orgasm while I watched since she wants me to finish her off. But it is still fun to watch her pleasure herself for a little while. Try some new things and then don't worry about what you are touching, but what and where you touch and how it stimulates you. Find those spots that feel good when touched and then demostrate for your boyfriend and have him take over. You might as well use this to make him a better lover and to give you what really feels great.
try a vibrator