Please anyone that can give me advice Id apprciate it alot. Me and my boyfriend were trying to have anal sex...he lube me up really good. and would enter and take out and re-enter as not to hurt me I suppose. Problem is I passed alot of loud air...gas..what ever without any warning. I FELT LIKE DYING..it was trully horrible. he was nice told me not to worry and kept on going. I feel like I need to bring it up just to get it off my chest. but im so incredibly embarrassed. should I bring it up? Am I abnormal? Does he find me as repulsive as I feel? : ( thanks
Sat, 07/17/2004 - 03:46
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HELP ME PLEASE
Hey, I wouldn't worry too much about it because chances are you're thinking about the embarassing moment far more than he is. When I had anal sex for the first time, I didn't eat any dairy, or other food that cause gas that whole day and I stopped eating about 6-8 hours before I was with him, and everything worked out fine. It you are willing to sacrifice not eating gassy foods 24 hours prior to the moment and not eating heavy foods about 6 hours prior to it, I think you should be okay, and that's my own advice. Good Day
same thing can happen w/ vaginal sex. slang term is "queef" i think lol.
yeah it is embarrassing but its happens. i don't think guys think about it as much we chicks do.
i think it would do it less if he entered and then didn't pull all the way out. like littlefury said, he's the one pushing the air up inside you.
What happened is totally normal. Because he pulled out and then went in again, that cause some air to be pushed in that then started to escape maybe you fart. I really don't know how to be able to stop it even if you can. But since he says not to worry about it, don't. There is nothing wrong with it, really. And remember, you're your worst judge. Guys usually see us in far better lgiht then we see ourselves in.