me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and i've been giving-or trying to give-him blowjobs since like..the 4th or 5th month...but i'm never able to make him have an orgasm:eek: but what get's me really upset is that he can make me have orgasms all the time and he pleases me all the time. i just don't think its fair that he can please me and i can't please him. i talk to him about it all the time and he say's that it's fine and that it doesnt matter to him. he's NEVER gotten mad at me either but i still feel really really bad. help mee!!:confused:
thanks:)
Can he ejaculate when he masturbates?
listen my gf and i have been goign out for the same amout of time as you guys have. it took her a long time to get me to cum with her mouth. if you want to get him to cum then try different ways to suck him. if you just use your mouth its kinda boring. use your hands and pump him while you suck. and if thats not enough try getting tips from porn if you cant think of anything else. if there is anything else you need to ask just mail me or something.
to let it deep, which they love, relax your throat muscles.
also literally suck or make a little vacume, it pumps it up.
lick the spot underneath the head on the underside like its pussy
use a rubber!! **** how he says he's clean, 1/3 men lie about it
press the length of your tongue against it as much as possible
hold the base in your fingers kind of tight to keep blood from leaving
when he's about to cum, do dirty talk, ie, "your cock is so hard!!"
also consider that it's not you. he could be gay, nervous, high, etc
If he is experiencing satisfaction from other things and says this is no big deal, forget about it. Your problem is wanting something for someone else who does not especially want it.
Use your tongue A LOT. You might end up with it sore if you do it for too long, but you get used to it after a while. Also, if you're doing any type of deep throating, use your tonsils. Like, clench up your throat while you're using the tongue. Oh, and my boyfriend likes it if I hum or make any kind of noise while my mouth is around him. There's more vibration. Try doing the first two together/close together and the other one when you're just going up and down the shaft. You could also try the "butterfly flick" if he's sensitive on his head. My bf personally isn't, but I hear it works well for other couples.
Use your imagination and you should be fine. And don't be afraid to ask him what he thinks would feel good.
[QUOTE=Brandye]If he is experiencing satisfaction from other things and says this is no big deal, forget about it. Your problem is wanting something for someone else who does not especially want it.[/QUOTE]
Bingo. It's coming from a BJ is not a big deal to him (or me).
I have to give her a thumbs up for the desire and effort though!