Hey every1
me and my bf have been together for a year and a bit. we have sex alot but we have tryed every think at least once. some times i think that he is getting bored of the positions we do. i have tryed anal with him but every time we do it, it really hurts me so we have to stop but i feel bad coz i know that anal really makes him horny!! what else can i do to make him really horny?? and also what can i do to stop it from hurting when we do anal?? thankz every1! would love some help!!
TLCxxx 
Fri, 08/12/2005 - 17:31
#1
Help Me!!!!
ok thanks every 1
Hi TLC,
Check out the posts on Anal 101. It should cover just about anything you want to know.
Just out of curiosity... has HE tried anal? Men... yes, even straight men (and NO, it won't "make" them gay)... can get a lot of pleasure out of anal stimulation. He might enjoy it, and at the very least, it might give him some insight as to what you are experiencing.
Take care.
we do do all the positions all the time jus to spice it up but yea do u no nefink 2 stop it 4rm hurting me wen we do anal?
LOL, you can always try the things you liked a second time you know?
Seriously, variety and spice is great and very much needed to keep a sex life moving along. But, there is nothing wrong with sticking to the things you know work really well.
As for anal. Some girls eventually learn to like it and some just love it. Look up on this site for the different techniques people use. I have yet to ever get any pleasure out of anal and I have tried everything imaginable to like it. Just not my thing.