How well do you know these guys? I think, okay theres a basic for what most guys like. But specific males have specific sexual characteristics. (In my mind)

So basically each male has something that you can do for them to help them get their load off. Some might not even be comfortable with the thought of ejaculating into someones mouth.

You have to pay attention to all parts. As my friend here says 'You cant be a hoover vacuum cleaner' lol you have to bring in some motion. While hes in your mouth do you massage him with your tongue?

Use hand motions as well at the same time if necessary to help bring him to that point.

The best way to find out what works for the guy is to ask him. No hes never given himself a blowjob obviously, but I bet he can tell you want feels good, and where he is most sensitive.

You have to look to your partner(s) for advice on what gets them all the way.

> i've never made a guy cum like that..they always have to help..like they always have to jack them selfs off.

Unless the boy is 13 or 14, a blow job will not usually be enough to bring him to orgasm. It is fine that he takes matters into his own hand so to speak, however, think of the exquisite pleasure you would give him if you stroked his penis at the same time you were stimulating him orally? This is the secret. The reason that manual stimulation is required is because each of us has a specific and unique (to us) way to build our arousal and trigger a climax. As awesome as oral stimulation is, and it definitely is, it is usually not the correct type of stimulation to trigger an orgasm. If you look, you will find several of my posts on other threads that explain the why of this.

Both of you have offered good advise, above; yet there is a procedure that I write about almost daily, now, that I'm going to have to begin quoting.

"Oral stimulation can be given by itself or in combination with stroking. Generally speaking when you want him to climax, it is best to employ both techniques together.

I advise women to cover their teeth with their lips so that the teeth do not scrape the skin of the penis. It doesn't hurt if it happens but it is darn annoying!

Open your mouth and relax your jaw and let the penis slip in and out between your wet lips. You can move your mouth around the glans and shaft in whatever manner pleases you and pleasures him. Take you cues from his reactions, or, simply ask what he likes.

The #1 hot spot is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft). If you want him to climax NOW, just rub this when he is on the verge of an orgasm.

Keep your lips moist. If your mouth or jaw tires, pause and do something else and then return after a bit. You do not have to open wide, just enough to let the penis slip in and out.

The following is a matter of personal choice:
* If you do not want him to ejaculate in your mouth, encourage him to let you know when he is about to climax. Expect with a young man that he may not be able to predict this event soon enough and mistakes are likely to happen. If you feel him cumming you can clamp down on the urethra running along the bottom of the shaft long enough to remove his penis.

*If you want him to ejaculate inside, raise the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth so that the semen squirts against the bottom surface. This will prevent any tendency to gag.

*If you want to swallow, you can do so directly, or if you prefer, by adding saliva, or accompanied with a drink of water.

Check the forum for information on oral sex."

The Scarleteen is an excellent resource. This link takes you directly to the topic:
http://www.scarleteen.com/sexuality/sex_oral.html

Here is another excellent resource:
http://honeymoons.about.com/od/oralsex/

I have had partners reach climax more slowly orally than vaginally. I bleieve it is because the position for getting a blow job cause less tension the man's body. With tongue, lip and hand on the shaft action, I have never found a man I could not get off orally.

guys are all different

When a girl is giving me a blow job she has to stroke my penis with her hand as she sucks on me, I cannot feel it if she just puts her mouth on my penis...maybe I'm wierd

Yes, the key is:

Constant sucking on the head with the tongue moving under the head of the penis. While this is happening the woman should jack the man off. There are two main ways to do this action. 1) would be to move hand and mouth up and down together, and 2) would be to suck on the head, move the tongue under the head, and rapidly jack off at the middle/base of the cock. You can either use spit for the jacking off, or use the lose skin...your choice.

I require these methods to cum from oral.