Go through each of the forums on this board and read each one of my Sticky posts. In addition, as you scan through the other Sticky posts, read all that address particular questions you may have.

After reading all this information, if you have additional and more specific questions or concerns, please ask.

If your a virgin and shes a virgin i think that you should help each other out.
you shouldn't be embarassed because shes just as inexperianced as you so you can both guide each other :)

Well, forever and ever that was pushed as the ideal. Live until you get married and then suddenly have wonderful sex. Doc says read around here. Yes, do that. Guy points out that you can teach each other. Yes, do that.

There is an old but wonderful book entitled Our bodies Ourselves and then Joy of Sex. Get them both; go through them together and teach each other.

Well, since you are both virgins, you are at least starting from the same base.

Don't be too concerned if you are disappointed with your first experience. You are no doubt eagerly anticipating the event, and your expectations will be very high. If the initial experience doesn't live up to the expectations, you may feel a bit let down. You may not feel that way, but if you do, don't let it worry you. Just learn from the experience, and practice! Also, don't take the experience too seriously, and don't forget to have fun, however it turns out. Laughter in the bedroom is a good thing.

i would suggest you both read through the forum together as it sounds like you both need help and having a common source of information may help especially in communicating (you: ok dear now lets try what dancingdoc suggested - her: hm yea I'll just go reread a bit and make sure i remember it all).

at least you are both starting from the same point. Anyhow don't worry you have no expectations to live up to and the most important thing is you just enjoy your time together and have fun learning

It's more about her not tensing up, and just relaxing. There are many posts here from women who stated their first time was great and not uncomfortable.

From personal experience, it's being gentle in penetration and just not thrusting in out of a sense of urgency.

[QUOTE=the-hunter;173887]hi I'm getting married in two months and I'm still a virgin! I'm so Nervous of doing something wrong and my girlfriend is a virgin too and i don't want to hurt her or make her first experiance a bad one. What should I do? I'm not experianced in anyway at all as my parents are misionarys and i never really stayed in one country long enough to have a girlfriend in my life and i havenever even kissed a girl on the lips before... my parents haven't been much help and just tell me to "Do whats natural" but that doesn't give me any advice... how should i start, make the first move, what should i be looking for and how can i please her so her first time is a good experiance? i've had a very sheltered life and now am feeling the strain... have you got any advice for me? Please help!!! Robb[/QUOTE]

i think it is terrific that you have both saved yourselves for each other.

basically just relax as it is a learning period... mistakes will be made but then again like i said its a learning process..

you are both new to sex so don't feel that you are the only one, your wife to be knows your a virgin from what i gather and she would understand the circumstances.

my advice, relax, take it slow, and let the good times roll!

oh yeh, and just enjoy the night, making love is not meant to be stressful, its meant to be intimate and what not so just relax and enjoy the moment, try not to stress over it too much.

i think its great you both are virgns, i wish i was but ohwell.
you cant do anything wrong you'll both enjoy it. just make sure you get the right hole