Hi!
This is the first time i've posted on a board.... I'm having a sexual problem in my relationship. I have known this guy for years, feel totally comfortable with him and love him very much but when having sex, despite lots of foreplay, I find it difficult 2 get really turned on and don't get very wet.... I really want to have great sex but am finding it difficult becasue of this reason. I usually climax quite easily on my own but only when using a vibrator...I've never been able to get to that point without one....
Anyhow despite lots of reassurance from my boyfriend I feel completely useless because of this in the bedroom....:(
Has anybody got any advice?:confused:
Lubricant and a light but frequent caressing touch on the clitoris and the G- Spot when having intercourse. Relax! This is not The Oylmpics and no one's going to give you demerits for lack of artistic expression or degree of difficulty.
You can always bring a vibrator into the bedroom if that's what gets you off. It is totally kosher to use a vibrator while you are having sex.
might want to give the vibrator a break for a while