Hi all,
I have been with my gf for about 10 yrs now and i have this crazy thought in my head that i always think about. It is to have another guy screw her wile i watch or even join in the action. It turns me on every time i think about it and i get hard and horny. I even went all the way by telling her a little bet about it how i would love to see her get banged and she laughed and said okey lets do it but right after she said just joking....
She said she would try a 3some with two guys or even another girl if she had a chance but not with me because it would ruin our relationship.
Is this normal for me to think that i want to see her get it on with someone else an possibly join in ?
Thanks All:confused:
Of course it is. If it weren't, there would be no such thing as MMF threesomes. Do some searching around the site, you'll find all sorts of stuff on it.
...including the essence of the concern she raised about it. There are very definitely people out there, of both genders, who are interested in threesomes but afraid jealousy would turn up and affect the original relationship.
Search around and read up on it. I've never threesomed, so I can't provide first hand knowledge. But there are some here who have, and can.
Yes, the 'but not with you' is quite common since she regards her relationship with you as 'precious' and therefore not to be exposed to any risks.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but if you even just watch her doing a MMF threesome, the relationship between you two will be changed. NOTE I said changed - not necessarily harmed.
But if you're not there (whether or not you participate) the entire point of the fantasy is moot.
I strongly encourage you to find your local Swing/Lifestyle group and spend some time actually talking with those who are actively engaged in three-somes, etc.