Where did you get that? From a friend? I highly doubt a word of it is true.

But why is this making you insecure? Most men want & need some stimulation to get or keep them aroused. Yes, they can look at pictures and get hard. Yes, they can touch women and get hard but the majority want & need some physical stimulation other then "look honey, I am hard, let me just put it in". It's part of the whole experience enjoying the touch and feel of the other.

Most guys "do not suck in bed"; early on it's a learning process as to what to do and how. Then with each and every new partner, it has to be relearned. What worked well before does not with the next. What makes a sexual experience miserable? When you are with a partner who is only in it for himself, to get his rocks off.

Mainly, you can look at it from another point. Look at how long it takes women to be able to orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, if they can ever. So to imply he's handing these out to the 14 y/o's left and right? Common, use your common sense! You are letting your imagination run away with you:)

what others can and can't do is nothing to do with you each person is different each coupling is different,

Plus learn to write like an 18 year old

Oh, by the way, don't tell this story next to anyone adult or he will be in jail. It's a fellony. Thanks :)

abwt, ryt, - text message abbreviations I suppose ?, it would not have hurt to correct the "quoted" text as well some posts can be so difficult to read one gets bored or starts to wonder if an answer is worth wasting time on

Honestly, I don't think it's true... I think either just 'thinks' she's had an orgasm, she's a faker or he's a liar.
I'd be interested to see what she writes though ;)

9 out of 10? I think at his age they all (boys and girls) should be.

The only thing that makes you better is practice and honest communication with your partner.
Assuming you know what works for you.

Man, most of these teenagers lie through their teeth! Some lie about not being virgins too. Do not think it doesnt happen right now. That kid knows absolutely nothing about the female body exept knowing how to be a jerk. Any guy who brags how many orgasms he can give his girl is a jerk and I cannot imagine him being Don Juan in bed. The best advice a man can ever give to his son is "Don't be a jerk in bed."

well from my personal experiences this is possible. me and an x-gf had a very 'productive' sex life, i was 14 she was 16. in that time we were together we had sex quite a fair bit and not wanting to sound a jerk from what previos people wrote she had many multiple orgasms. i think the most was 5 from pure sex, and 2 prior from fingering and licking out. its just a question of knowledge and what girls like. he could just know how to hit her spots and what gets her going the most. she could just be very sensitive or something.

ok i admit there is a possibility he could be making it up ( i did to, but to my gf, i feared being thought inadequate cos she had more sexual partners than me) but its surprising what youth today know and how to get a girl going. my x was shocked when she discovered i never had done anything apart from kiss before i got her going that much lol. again not wanted to sound a jerk just giving my own personal experiences.

another factor could be the extent of the feelings she has for him. if she has deep and meaninful feelings for him it could make it seem all the more better and so she feels it more.

also hes 16 right, who knows what hes done in those 16 years. i know someone whose 14 and has done stuff with 'a few' girls so to speak ( around 40 to be precise (legend) lmao) and so its fair to say hes picked up a trick or 2. knowing what to do, where to do it and how. he may be the same. he may have the experience that others dont lol.

o and for the record, just want to say, you said shes 14 so its prbs her first bf, that aint accurate ok mate, shes probs had several more than that and probs done stuff to lol. just thought id say lmao.

but dw, ur life is ur life theres is theres. just concentrate on you and not them ok mate

I can't speak for a teenager, however I was with this woman that would have multiple vaginal orgasms in one session.
I don't know what it was, but with her no matter what position it was she could orgasm every time.
It wasn't a fake.

I have been with about a dozen or so women.
My stats (roughly)
1 - VO every time without fail (multiple)
1 - VO never (and I have tried and tried)
10 or so - would VO every once and a while
Now, all of the would O with stimulation (oral and digits)

geez, until the age of at least 20,I didn't have time for girls or sex! Too many interesting things to do(that did not include a bunch of caviats) and way too many cars to fool around with! LOL :)

I agree that it depends a lot on the girl. Some orgasm VERY easily from penetration...others just occasionally...others never.... it's not really anything that the guys doing. In that he's such a sex god that he could make EVERY woman orgasm like 5 times.

Also, I wonder if some girls are sure about what they are defining as a orgasm. Like if their legs twitch or something...that must have been it. Or you get tingly down there. I soemtimes will have little ups/down but not the "main" one. When I count an orgasm.. it's the main one that's like OMG! and afterwards, you are spent! there's no going any farther LOL.

What nonsense!?

Uncreative name, please make your signature normal. It takes up too much space and looks gross.

i think he is talking a load o ball to be frank, weather he can or not, remember your friend is 16 i am 15 and the guy i lost my virginity to was the same age he was so badly educated when it comes to sex that he actually thought everytime i moaned during sex i was having another orgasm even though he never ever gave me one, and girld of a young age do tend to fake it and tell their partner that they orgasmed loads of times too to try and give them a confedance boost so think about it he probably isnt lying and does think he's giving this girl many orgasms over and over but thats only because shes telling him she is out of lack of experience and to try to boost his ego

um. well i'm 15..and so is my b/f and thats pretty much how it is for us.. we just started having sex like 2 months ago and its been amazing... i was a virgin and he was/is my first.. so its not completely impossible.. :)

[QUOTE=rosie10;183675]um. well i'm 15..and so is my b/f and thats pretty much how it is for us.. we just started having sex like 2 months ago and its been amazing... i was a virgin and he was/is my first.. so its not completely impossible.. :)[/QUOTE]

but are you actually sure your having orgasms? i mean i'm 15 and whe if first started having sex i always thought that i had like several orgasms, but i didnt it's been a year scince i've lost my virginity and i've only just started to understand what an orgasm is and how it feels, i guess that whole lesson tought me that you never no everything especialy when your inexperienced i mean i'm still learning things, and the more you learn the better it gets!

I think Herd and Lust make good points and kind of what I was saying. In that Herd's guy thought everytime she moaned it was an orgasm.... so of course he'd tell his friends she came like 20 times lol.
And Lust "thought" she was having orgasms...but not until she had the real thing... did she know what IT was.

But... I mean it could all be true as well... stranger things have happened :)
I just think that it all really depends on how easily the girl orgasms.... some girls are just lucky...and others have to try a lot harder.
I am kind of inbetween. It's not easy for me... but I can usually achieve it w/ moderate effort.