sounds promising i guess....don't just say it all at one go though....do it while kissing her in different places like:

"hey baby, (kiss on the lips) you know what i wanna do right now, (kiss on the neck) wrap my arms around you, (kiss on the ear) give you the most passionate kiss youve ever had, (kiss on the neck) take you up to your room,....... well you get the idea....

also...if you're planning a dinner first make sure its sthing light.... i know that after a heavy dinner i don't really feel like having sex coz i feel bloated....and if we do its not a nice feeling having your dinner bouncing around in your stomach while you're at it!!!!

Good luck!!! ;)

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[QUOTE=rollin]hey guys, ive been with my girlfriend for a few years now, shes not really into anything sexual, and well, im trying to change that, ive given her all the time she needs and well, im tired of waiting. i know she really wants to have sex, but shes nervous about it, and im trying really hard to make her feel comftorable. she told me that she wants me to just sweep her off her feet one night. so im planning on taking her out to dinner, then we are going back to her place. ive never really been the one to start talking to a girl seductively, and well i need ur feedback on this 1. im planning on saying something like this
hey baby, you know what i wanna do right now, wrap my arms around you, give you the most passionate kiss youve ever had, take you up to your room, lay you down, slowly undress you, kiss every inch of your body, and then il do anything you want.
what do u guys think?[/QUOTE]

Hmm..I'd like that if I were her. Give it a shot! Most all women are nervous their first time (whether it's their first time ever, or trying it with a new partner) so take it slow. If she's going to be nervous then you'll most likely need to keep her calm and relaxed or else you won't arouse her and it won't be that fun of a night. If you're into foreplay, I suggest that as well. If not, start off with the slow undressing (as you said) and some long slow kisses! Have a kickass night man!

Hi guys! I'm a female and if a guy said that to me then I would proabably trun him down. Some girls just like for the guy to say nothing and for it to just happen romanticly and slowly.

I think cuecards are a good idea. :rolleyes:

perhaps she is lacking so knowledge (like I was some time ago) and is nervous about it wjy not show her this forum ? it helped me a lot

If i were here and i heard you say "i want to 'do it' now" i'd push you off and most likely leave. do you love this girl? if so you should wait until she is ready, if not then leave her let her first time be with someone special (that is only if you don't love, i'm not trying to be mean) and if i can say something i hear alot of guy say "and i know she wants to have sex too" and every time i hear that i'm like "how do you know what she wants and doesn't want? i mean did she say she wanted to have sex, did she say 'i want to have sex' because if she didn't then you can't really know, don't pressure her" but i'm pretty sure it's just how you guys word things that make it seem like that. anyhow that's my advice to you.