hey, me and my girlfirend started having sex a couple of weeks ago, we've tried 3 times but every time we have to stop because she is in so much pain, i go slowly and i do lots of foreplay before hand and shes on top so shes in control, but she is always in pain,
im really worried because i love her and i dont want to hurt her, isnt sex supposed to be a sign of love and not be painful after the first or second time?
please help, i want us to enjoy sex instead of it being like a chore.
thanks, any help is welcome, i need it.
justin x
I'm on the same page as thetease
However...if that doesn't work, at the pain still continues constantly, not on just the entry...she emeeds to see the doctor. Becuase there are some medical conditions that mgiht be causign that.
thanks, guys, but i just didnt expect it to hurt her so much, she likes to hold my hand wen having sex and wen i enter her and start goin in and out she squeezes really tight on my hand and actually hurts me too lol, and i must mention that before we started havin sex we were both virgins
As the person above me said, it's different for all women.
It hurts me on entry and has all the times we've tried it.
Unfortunately, it's pretty much just going to take time...and that time may take a while.
However, I will suggest getting some lube.
As I said it hurts me on entry, but I've found that Astroglide works the best for me out of all the ones I've tried. The pain is still there, but not nearly as much and after a few times of "in and out", I do get loose enough so that it doesn't really hurt.
I used to use k-y jelly and didn't help much. I tried something else, but nothing. Now I'm using Astroglide and it works.
You can find it in your local Walmart or drug store or probably grocery store somewhere.
Its gonna hurt her for anywhere from the first to 20th time, its diffrent amognst all women, even then it will take a while for her to begin to enjoy sex, again this is diffrent among all women.