if it makes you feel any better. 80% of females that own a vibrator don't put it inside them. They just use it for clitoral stimulation.

Having said that, personally, I don't even use the vibrator part. I just use it as a dildo. The vibrating sensation isn't very nice on my clit ( its just not very natural feeling) and even internally i prefer it not vibrating as it feels more like a real dick, and dicks don't vibrate!

i love the disposible ones made by durex...they're annoying cuz they're disposible...but oh they make sex life so so good!

I'm a vibrator junkie! I love my 6" vibe, my bullet, my body massager and anything else that vibrates. Hell give me a washing machine on spin and I'm a happy girl.

I do only like the vibes on my clit. Penetrating me doesn't do much unless it's right at the opening of my vagina where the nerve endings are.

I have been wondering about vibrating nipple clamps and hope to find out soon how those feel.  

I've been thinking to myself, that vibrators must be made by men, as the vibration is utterly useless in my opinion! Inside it makes your teeth rattle and on the outside you just want to throw it at the wall. Ugh. The good thing is, that it's still nicely shaped, and the battery comes out.

However, have you tried butterflies? Now there's a nice vibrating gadget! Although the idea is the same as with vibrating dildo, the sensation is completely, utterly different. I'm not the easiest one to get aroused, but that thing surely does the job!

I recently got a rabbit style vibrator and it works in like a minute... but it took me a little while to get used to using my first vibe too. does it feel too strong to you? if you dont think its too much, then maybe it isnt strong enough, so try brand new batteries. Vibes tend to work better when you use them on your clit, so maybe get one that has a variable speed, and use it with a bit of lube.

I LOVE my vibrator, but I too like mine just on my clit. If my clit is not stimulated then I rarely reach the BIG O

I am not a great fan of vibrators but my g/f uses one and we sometimes share. As I look at adverts for the things, they may be misleading. I do not know what a silver bullet is but it sounds like something you insert into your vagina. The vibration will do the most good if it is stimulating the clitoris, not directly but through the hood and the fold around it. My girlfriend's is the old fashioned kind that you strap on the back of your hand sometimes called a Swedish massager. She uses it with direct pressure through a towel placed her. I use it with a finger on either side of the labia and focus on the outer lips. The vibration really tickle my clitoris.

I have also used a rather large Panasonic with a large bulb for a head. This stimulates the entire genital area. If you have to focus on the mechanics of getting it to "work" that blocks the fantasy that is so important to any form of masturbation

I've yet to find a vibrator that can give me an orgasm. I just don't think all people are made to have an orgasm with one... just like not all people get off on penetration alone. Some need more.

I can get an orgasm if I rub my clit myself, but the vibrator route doesn't do much for me other than perhaps on ocassion get me wet.

So don't worry, you're not alone.

Well I have to be in the mood first. When I am turned on I usually use my hand to stimulate but then hit the viberator. Slightly touching my clit works but it must me subtal and slight. I don't need a jack hammer down there just a slight viberation.