Hey guys, I hope you can help me...this is my first post ever, so, yay!!!! Anyways, I've been with my boyfriend for a long time and for about a year and a half of our relationship we've had to do the long distance thing because he had to go away to school. We've always had a good sex life but right before he left back for school it kinda got routine because we have been together so long and had been doing the same things. Well he's gonna be back this weekend and I want to really suprise him in bed. Any tips? Also, I never was really big on the whole 'giving head' thing but I wanna surprise him with trying it when he gets back...but I don't really know how to get the courage to actually go up and do it...and what I would actually do when I got down there...lol....any advice? thanks guys!!! xoxoxo :p
Tue, 08/26/2003 - 07:43
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Help! He's coming back!
Welcome to the board **StRiPpEd*AwAy**. Since you have a few days to prepare, spend a good deal of time on this board. You'll find many posts related to your questions including preparing a surprise evening, techniques, etc. When you find something you like, or have some specific questions, fire away. I think you'll find there's plenty here to help you plan your special reunion.
I don't know about him... but I love it when the mood is set. Candles... a slow song to start out the mood... then a fast paced one that starts while in the middle of it, as a sexy surprise.
Given the fact that you have been seeing each other for more than a year, and have already had extensive sexual contact, there MUST be some things he's said about things he's fantasized about.
You already stated you were thinking about doing more oral sex, thats a good start, but your heart has to be in it.
Also, to have some REAL fun, you can go to an adult bookstore and by an adult game. They have several very fun board/dice/card games that can really help bypass the burden of having to "decide" what to do sexually.
You can also go and buy some massage oils and give eachotehr full body massages (no sex during the massage, because it makes the sex after SOOO much more fun).
One thing my lover did for me when i came home from an extended trip, was when i got home from the airport, there were rose petals leading a path to the bathroom where there were candles and a bubble bath and nice music....then the petals lead to the bedroom where there were more candles/massage oils and some toys!
Hope this helps!