I know this has been posted before over the site and questions asked with answers provided, but I still never found a good enough answer for me.
Ever since my girlfriend and I have been having sexual intercourse, she has given me blow jobs, sucks my dick, whatever you wish to call it, but I haven't gone down on her, "eat her out", again whatever you wish to call it. I need help from both sexes here please. The problem I am having going down on her, I'm afraid of the taste, don't know what to expect, and how it is done. I don't know what it will taste like and it's hard to tell ahead of time since all women are different. She's been getting upset with me because she does it for me but I don't do it for her. Yes I'm a guy, I've watched porn before, but how is it done to give her the best pleasure possible? Is there something that I can do as the man in the relationship to get me over these fears on the taste and how things are done? I've gone close to doing it, but freak out and back down. To me it feels like this has ruined our relationship between us because of me being a wus and being afraid. I have no one really to ask for help. My best friend from work said he don't like it neither does his wife so he can't help me, and my other good friend from work said that it's hard for her to help with me because we only talk at work, I don't know where she lives and I really can't go there to begin with since she is married and her husband is always home. She don't want him to suspect something and freak out on her even more than he has lately. So I'm asking you as a member with problems, what can I do? Can someone give me ideas how it's done, how to battle the taste, and how to finish strong? The smell don't bother me since it really don't have an odor. I want to thank you all for your time and effort to help me. Thank you.
Sorry, but his HAS BEEN ANSWERED - but beyond that you just have to DO IT and the PRACTICE it.
Women don't get good at fellatio by just imagining fellatio you know so, yes, you just have to get down there and lick, suck, nibble - pay attention to her reaction, invite her to tell you what works, what doesn't, more of this, less of that and a little to the left, please.
Okay - and this applies to everyone - so he/she may not taste like "nectar of the gods" but as long as he's/she's clean and free of disease - IT WON'T KILL YOU - so just 'get over' the whole taste issue already.
Specifics are not possible to give because each womn is different in what she likes and what she doesn't - you just have to gather up your courage in both hands and get busy learning.
I don't think I can help you but I'll tell some things. First of all it's good that you watch porn (I like it too) but the real life and sex with your partner is not a porn movie! It's all about sences and desries from both of you! Talk... If you like ask her 'to go down there' or... just go! Take the sweetest journey of all traveling through her body and set the finish line right between her legs. Be gentle and monitor her reactions! About the taste, smells, and other stuff... Do you love your girl or not? Do you love all her body parts and places? What are you afraid of? I think this is the sweetest place in the World... but that's me...
Find the sticky posts entitled The Program and Body Worship and do all of that.
1. Vaginal mucus is an acquired taste.
2. Please read the articles listed in the Index that discuss the matter of method and technique.
As for being an acquired taste, personally I would not give a woman oral who hasn't first bathed.
As for it being an acquired taste, I have never had a bad experience. Tonight I had a first--a drink of chocolate ale. Now, that is a taste that I still haven't acquired.
As for how-to, please read the article describing the KIVIN method along with other articles.
In my experience if the woman has bathed then there is absolutely nothing averse about oral. A little salty if anything. If the smell doesn't bother you, then the taste isn't likely to bother you either. And honestly, seeing my wife enjoy herself while I go down on her is a huge turn-on for me. Go for it.
In order to become a good lover you must be an unselfish lover. This mean placing your women's desires before your own. I understood this when I first started having sex. I'll admit I didn't intiallly like the taste but It was an aquired taste. I can honestly say that I crave the taste at times. When you decided to pleasure your woman take time and pay attention to what pleases her. Most women I have meet throughly enjoy recieving oral. Many woman do not like to give head. If you have a willing girlfriend its time to reciprocate the favor.