I've enjoyed being caned and/or whipped for as long as I can remember, and can take a lot before I have to use my safe word and end the session. I often wonder what it would be like to dispense with my safe word though, and any chance of stopping when I feel I have reached my limit, asking in advance for the caning/whipping to continue until I pass out. Has anyone tried or actually achieved this please? I'm fascinated with the idea and very tempted to try, but at the same time a little nervous at what it would be like going well beyond the point that I feel I cannot take more. As I said I can take a very heavy session already and feel it wouldn't be much longer before I passed out, but of course I have no way of knowing whether that's right until I try it.
Mon, 04/02/2007 - 22:27
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heavy caning?
And you are planning to take a trip to the ER after you pass out? Or is your partner supposed to leave you unconscious for days? It may be difficult to believe when you are in the hospital this was voluntary & you are putting the person at a substantial liability. And what if you don't resume consciousness again?
This reminds me of those who use hypoxia to heighten orgasms. This is just plain dangerous, maybe leave it as a fantasy. And if you don't drawn up a letter of consent explaining why you are doing this and what you want...be certain to sign it and have it notarized.
This can easily lead to nerve damage, infection and permanent scarring. Associating extreme pain with sexual satisfaction certainly falls within the purview of mental health providers.
I can almost guarantee you will windup in the hospital. Smelling salts only work on people who "faint" from things which are caused by seeing something awful, get bad news (vasovagal) or have low blood pressure and stand up too quickly. They are more of a "temporary" state of syncope. Those who pass out from pain, injury, or overdoses are very different. The neurological functions to stimuli are assessed differently.
Years back before "conscious sedation" a drug technique used to put people into twilight sedation we used to reduce dislocated shoulders without meds. The pain at times caused people to go into respiratory arrest (stop breathing) and we had to manually ventilate them with ambu bags. The pain caused them to pass out. When you pass out your tongue can obstruct your airway or you can vomit and obstruct your airway.
Don't do it, it's bad and there is no guarantee you will regain consciousness. And as Brandye said you'll end up on the psych ward if you wake.
sera300:
would it be so bad though? wouldn't smelling salts wake me up, or I would just wake up soon anyway? and would this really result in a trip to hospital?
sera300/brandye: thanks for the helpful comments
sera300: that all gives me a lot to think about. I should probably try and forget about it but thats not easy when I've been deeply longing for it for so long and will only feel unfulfilled for the rest of my life. If I do decide to go ahead and try it I will need to write something (notarised) making it clear thats its my responsibility alone. What other measures could we take other than being aware of the dangers and having some first aid ready? Is there really a risk of never regaining consciousness? Do you mean dying or going into a coma? I have read a lot about judicial canings in Singapore and Malaysia where the recipients regularly pass out and have to have the rest of their strokes at a later date, but never heard of anyone dying or even failing to come round at all, and some of those punishments are very severe indeed, up to 72 strokes of the rattan. Some of the sessions I have had left me unable to sit comfortably for more than a week, and early on some discomfort in walking, but no lasting damage. I am always careful to avoid infection by having a good soak in a hot saline bath soon afterwards.
Is this really worth the risk? If you pass out and stop breathing there is not much too many can do to help you, basic first aid is not going to help. Skip what your read about Singapore. I am telling first hand, I have had people go unconscious and into respiratory arrest from pain during reductions...And from trauma. I spent 3 years in a shock/trauma unit, there's not much I have not seen...this is a bad idea and you are placing your life at risk.
sera300: thank you very much for this clear advice, I think I really need to shelve this particular fantasy and will do my best to forget it.
Johnny,
Most people who have this association between pain and sexual pleasure have learned it somewhere. Some have been forced into it and some have gotten into it to be part of a group. It is sometimes difficult to "forget it." If you have this difficulty, please see someone capable of helping. The sooner it is overcome, the healthier you will be.
thanks Brandye. If I ever felt I was strongly tempted to do this for real I would seek help first since it seems to be so potentially dangerous. But I'm not sure I want or need help more generally with what I do. I have no idea why I (or many others like me) get such a kick out of a whipping/caning but the fact is it is a source of such incredible pleasure and really the most amazingly powerful climaxes and orgasms. As long as it doesn't do me real damage (and till now it hasn't) why would I want to give that up? I think my life would be the poorer and very empty without it. But I do accept I need to draw a clear line between the fantasies I can act out, and those best left unacted upon.
Being given a good dose of traditional school caning does wonders for one so I fiound at school when repeated strokes of the rattan landed on my gym shorts. The euphoria of receiving the painful strokes and reultant glow on buttocks has never lessened and need this still today as a necessary medicin. Any communicants welcomed kres @ post,com