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As you'll read, not everyone makes noises during sex or screams like a porn star... neither is better or worse than the other.

I would say usually the more comfortable you get w/ someone... the verbal you get... but I have never just let out a loud scream or moan... I am pretty quiet.

If you aren't feeling it.. then you would be faking it.

wimper?!??!

Egad!

Now I make all kinds of noises but never a wimper.

You may or may not get more or less verbal but it may not be the noise he's really after but a clear and definite signal that you have had your due of 16 orgasms.

well he should just be content with the noises you usually make asking you to scream amounts to asking you to fake the feeling or whatever just make sure you don't hold back if ever feeling like making a noise and tell him thats what you naturally feel else you faking it just to keep him happy

so far everyone is right. Trying asking him why he wants you to scream and "Its hot" is not an answer. Tell him that you are just not all the verbal. Now I will admit that I am normally rather quiet during sex, but there has been a time or two when, even with my normal partner, it was WAY better than normal and I literally pulled myself up off the bed saying: "OMG stop I just can't take it, its too much...OMG" which made him feel like the the superhero of sex. But I dont know that is was that much better just because he was on that night or if I was just horny that normal or what.

Now see, if I tried to scream during sex, I wouldn't be able to do it. I live in an apartment complex where the walls are fairly thin and I just wouldn't want the neighbors hearing me. They might complain to the land lord and well, that'd be incredibly embarrassing.

Does he actually want you to scream as in shriek or does he just want you to be really loud? You know, my boyfriend used to really want me to talk dirty during sex, and I was willing to oblige but I kinda had a set list of things to say... what can I say, I couldn't think of that much. I wanted to do it to please him, but it kinda made me nervous and put pressure on me. After a half hour, what more was there to say?? Inevitably, it ended up getting boring for him because, though I tried, it was clear that I wasn't that into it. Now I make the noises that I want to make, i.e. the ones I make instinctively. We both like it a lot better that way. For him, it doesn't feel contrived, and for me, it's less pressure and I can just focus on the pleasure. I think your bf might find the same thing. Everyone has their little porn star fantasies, but they don't all work out as well as you'd think they might. In the end, playing out a fantasy is good, but you have to be true to your "sexual personality" or it won't be believable in the long run.

[QUOTE=poet1977;187105]Help. He wants me to scream. How do I do this without sounding fake? Should this come naturally? I naturally whimper or cry. How can I change this?[/QUOTE]

don't worry just scream, I bet it will be fun for you.

RCNV I am not in NV anymore I am in CT so my name hear is kind of moot.