[QUOTE=mintajalepi;257452]2) Getting ALL the hair from the labia and everywhere is a chore and takes a while - not to mention having to contort herself[/quote]Shave it for her. It'll actually be easier for you to shave it for her than for her to shave it herself. Doesn't take very long to do and isn't that difficult either. Shave it once a week.

[QUOTE=mintajalepi;257452]4) She liked the smoothness (and I liked it even more!!!) but, after 2 days, didn't particularly enjoy the stubble prickliness[/QUOTE]I've found that the best thing to do is not to shave all the way down to the skin, but to use a bikini shaver that doesn't cut all the way down to the skin. Feels great. The result is just as sexy and just as big a turn on for him without causing any irritation for me.

You shave until it's smooth and hairless.

[QUOTE=Rouge;254495]You shave until it's smooth and hairless.[/QUOTE]

If your hair isn't very fine - please, please, please don't shave it. Waxing/sugaring or neatly trimming works well, but a penis head repeatedly brushing up against stubble is something that I'd rather hit my thumb with a hammer than endure.

Really?, and WHY would he ask you to do this? IS he a 'slave to fashion' or something?

If he wants it bald, he can grow one and shave it to his heart's delight. What do YOU want?

Oooh, I like that! Excellent reply, Brandye!!

Awesome reply's ^

So what do YOU want?

Why is everyone being offensive? She asked how to do it, not whether she should.
Since she didn't tell us otherwise, I guess she already decided to do it but she doesn't know how.

Is it seriously that much of an issue to want to do something for your partner?

Allthough I like the replies (first thing I thought as well :)), I must admit Grim and Rouge got a point too. Maybe the girl is feeling now like her question is not taken seriously. That would be a shame as well, wouldn't it?

So dear Tinagiles, there's an article on shaving (and I've posted tips there myself):http://www.sexinfo101.com/kb_shaving.shtml
Just consider what part do you want to be bald? I mean: your vagina is neatly hidden between your labia and I don't think many hairs grow there :) You could only shave your outer labia and leave the triangle part (under your belly-button) trimmed or not even adjusted at all. I've had this for some time. He asked me if I would like to try it. Sometimes a man just comes up with great ideas :) For me it is great to feel him rubbing against the bare labia-skin while having sex and he loves it too. The triangle part is less sensitive too me. Although I remove hairs there too now, but that's more a beauty-thing..

So why does he, and moreover do you, like it to be bald? Just out of simple curiosity? Beauty? Because of the feeling/touch? Or is there another specific reason to it? Whatever answer, there's nothing wrong with trying something.

It is just that this question ha been asked and answered SO OFTEN!!

REQUESTS:

1. if your partner asks and you want to - fine - do it
2. if your partner asks and you don't want to - fine - then don't do it
3. if your partner aks and you don't care one way or another - fine - then try it once

Making decisions isn't all that hard, people.

[QUOTE=tinagiles;254488]My bf asked me if I could get bald on my vagina , I trim all the time with an electic shaver my mom gave me years ago , how does one go "bald"?[/QUOTE]

I get a wax job down there at times. He does like mine bald, but I also tell him to shave his balls, which he gladly does.

I agree with EvilEvilKitten's last post

do what you wanna do (it's your body)

My husband asked me to shave many years ago. At the time, I had no previous experience to draw upon so I agreed then immediately hated it and refused to let him see it or touch it until at least some of the hair grew back! I mean I really hated everyting about it. I looked like a juvinile, not a woman. I looked and felt raw. Everything further irriated my skin, even his pubic hair felt like brillo against my pubic area! You would think that when the hair grows back, everything returns to normal but it takes MONTHS for the hair to fully fill in. I chalk this up to an experience that isn't worth repeating, at least not for me.
Some people are just meant to keep body hair on their pubes, I'm one of them. My skin is so sensitive that I had to get my lower legs and underarms lasered over a 4 year period of time. It was either that or look like a hippie or worse, a baboon.
My pubic hair is gonna stay right were it is, minus an occasional not so close trim.

My wife has gone bald a few times but now keeps it very closely cropped. When she has gone bald she has said this...

1) Having tried it once she would not use wax there as she found it a bit painful.

2) Getting ALL the hair from the labia and everywhere is a chore and takes a while - not to mention having to contort herself

3) She found it best and easiest using a razor with 3 blades and a good quality foam. Even before starting she would have a long hot bath just to really soften the skin prior to razor contact

4) She liked the smoothness (and I liked it even more!!!) but, after 2 days, didn't particularly enjoy the stubble prickliness

I think it's a perfectly fine request. I mean, a relationship is based around comfort and honesty, isn't it? I don't mind shaving down there for my boyfriend, I know he is more comfortable eating me out when it's that way, and I feel sexier. I mean, if a guys' dicks were all hairy we would probably ask them to shave it before going down on them don't you think?

No, ashbabe - I like them straight as they come from the manufacturer; however they come from the manufacturer.

It's the person not the packaging that matters most.

I like th look of a woman with hair there, I must admit it is easier to eat a lady who is shaved. But I like hair. But yes it is your body.

Wax or Shave every last hair

NOTE: Shaving it all off, you might get razor bumps/ingrown hair, and trust me (im a guy) that is a real turn off!

First thing that comes to mind is STD's! When i see an odd looking hairless vagina...

NOTE also about waxing, your "area" might be all red after waxing and might hurt with every touch you give it... so i suggest wax and rest/dont have sex for days

My wife of 21 years recently started waxing, a friend got her going with her. I admit I had wanted her to do it for sometime but she didn't so I didn't push it. Now I don't think she would go back. She loves the way it feels during oral and intercourse and I love performing oral that much more now that she is smooth. It does grow back if you don't like it.

I highly suggest hair removal cream. Using the cream there are no bumps or itching. The best brand I have found is Magic (click on it to go to site)

It is made for blacks but it works excellent on pubic hair. All the ones out there like nair isn't strong enough. I will never go back to razors. Of course, there is waxing but that gets expensive. I buy this cream at Walmart in the razor section.

I used to go bald for my ex but it was what he wanted.I just trim now.It's your body,if you really want to go bald do it,but not if it is just to please your partner.I hated going bald.If you asked your partner to do it would he oblige?

A female i was talking to a little while ago was saying that she keeps it changed to suit herself and depending on the time of the year to how she has it down there. The warmer months it is all waxed and during the cold parts of the year it just trimmed. A ex girlfriend has said to me its cooler down there with no hair or very little hair on a female vagina pubic hair area.
It still does come down to how you personally like it and anything is worth a try once to see if you like it or not.

I'm a guy and its a great help if ur bald or low trimmed during a eat out. Otherwise I find it a great annoyance

At one point, I wanted my fiance' to shave herself but she said she did try it once with her ex-husband and didn't like it. And, it's actually not bad eating pussy that's not trimmed or shaven!

Horrible. I check first - if she's bald, no sex for me. I don't like underarm shaving either. Hairy women are real women, bald women are eleven year olds. Maybe that's what some men dream if?

His name is O Reilly, not O'Rielly.

[QUOTE=tomas;259802]Horrible. I check first - if she's bald, no sex for me. I don't like underarm shaving either. Hairy women are real women, bald women are eleven year olds. Maybe that's what some men dream if?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=tomas;259803]His name is O Reilly, not O'Rielly.[/QUOTE]

Thank you, dear Tomas. I totally overlooked that typo :o

As for your comment; each person has their preferences. But I would be very offended if a man would only sleep with me if I were bald. Same offend if he'd only if I was hairy. I'd feel totally disrespected as a person! Personally; I would never treat a man as a piece of meat ("hot piece of fur" or "hot piece of bare skin" ;)) Beauty and passion is about so much more! Not even speaking of sex as love in carnet... I hope every (wo)men who is confronted with such insult, leaves with his/her head up high.

I think every (wo)men should be able to show his/her body with style and pride! Be it bald or hairy. Personally, I've been very very proud of my hairs under both my armpits and my pussy. I was 9 and I thought it was sooooo cool that I was going to be a woman :) There was no way I'd shave off my pride! After about 10 years, that special feeling kinda wore off. And it even became a bit of nuisance, esp while menstruating. So I just started trimming; very sensitive skin... Years after tried shaving a bit, bit more, bit more, etc and loved the feeling while having sex. Is that about going back to age 8?! :eek: Maybe to some. And maybe some do it only because their partner is "disgusted" by 3 tiny hairs. But I hope not! I think it is about how I don't need hair to be or feel like a woman. Nor do I need to be bald! Just need to be me and do what feels good.

[QUOTE=Grim;254561]Why is everyone being offensive? She asked how to do it, not whether she should.
Since she didn't tell us otherwise, I guess she already decided to do it but she doesn't know how.[/QUOTE]

two words: Depilatory cream. If you're doing it for yourself or even just out of curiosity then forget everyone else's opinion. If you're doing it for him, what are you getting and is it a fair exchange?

IF all she's getting out of going bald is sex - then it is not a fair exchange because, being female, she can get sex anytime she wants - face the reality.

I agree to whoever losing their hair needs to decide. But ya know, sometimes we do things to please our partner. I personally prefer less hair on myself. I leave some hair on the top because I do not look good totally bald. I also think about if I was going down on a woman. I would like hardly any hair, if any.

I have been with men that trimmed themselves, some were bald. I don't find any real need for a man to do anything with their hair, but when they do, it is kinda nice. They care about how it looks and stuff.

I tried it once out of curiosity (didn't think about trying until I was asked, but I was curious). Yes, someone that I was sharing pics with asked, but I turned down requests I didn't want to do. I do enjoy the lack of hair, but when it starts to grow back... not comfortable.

I let it grow back after the first time, but when I started getting ingrown hairs (several years later), I decided to shave again. I'm not masochistic enough to put a blade near my penis or scrotum (even if it's part of a safety razor)... I use an electric shaver. I'm not "bald", I just got the hairs very short and sparse. The only place I've ever gotten ingrown hairs is my groin (and yes, I had an office visit to a urologist that diagnosed it as an ingrown hair).

Short hairs and stubble become ingrown.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;260299]Short hairs and stubble become ingrown.[/QUOTE]

It might have been luck, but I've not had a single ingrown since.

In the quest for removing genital hair, if that is what you like as I do. I bought some Revitol hair remover [safe for use anywhere on the body], ($70-00 minimum purchase) used it per instructions. After time was up, I cleaned up and showered. ALL the genital hair was still there! Please DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY ON IT! IT DOES NOT WORK!!!
I have yet to find a cream that does without burning my penis and scrotum unbearably!

I just shaved my pussy bald.It was a spur of the moment decision and i did it for my own benefit,not to please anyone else.

I sometime like eating from a clean plate Raunchy. More often than not, I prefer a bit of hair.

I also shaved my pubes once. It also was for me, I got tired of zipping up and catching hair in the zipper. Thats really painful

I shave mine for my husband and it really isn't a big deal... although once you start you really need to keep it up.. also be very careful not to shave back too far back as it could cause you to get an infection. :)

I've found guys love it more when there's no hair, plus when they are eating you out they dont wanna be having pubes in their mouth.

i've always shaved "bald" since i was about 14/15, not just for sex i just think it makes it a bit cleaner.

my bf also shaves all his pubes off, but that's cause he does alot of training.

I have never found, in more than 40 years of 'activity', that given the choice between "sex with pubic hair" or "no sex at all" a man would choose "no sex at all" making the presence or absence of hair irrelevant.

[QUOTE=tinagiles;254488]My bf asked me if I could get bald on my vagina , I trim all the time with an electic shaver my mom gave me years ago , how does one go "bald"?[/QUOTE]

lmao! Just shave it with a regular razor that you'd shave your legs with, until it's nice a smooth:) A pussy with no hair is a pretty pussy:)

Yep! Pretty alright with the red bumps from ingrown hairs, pubic hair curls you know, like she has some sort of rash. True, not all have this problem but really, why bother? Can't he find "it" otherwise? Needs a guide dog does he?

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;262501]Yep! Pretty alright with the red bumps from ingrown hairs, pubic hair curls you know, like she has some sort of rash. True, not all have this problem but really, why bother? Can't he find "it" otherwise? Needs a guide dog does he?[/QUOTE]

Ha, ha, EEK that last sentence just got me a funny picture in my head! I thought cats and dogs don't go together that well! ;) :) :D

Why bother? Cause to some it may add to sensitivity of the labia; it does for me. For those that are confronted with aching rash, off course it's not worth it!

And beauty? ...is in the eyes of the beholder. Most important beholder being yourself! I must say I like mine. Especially since I saw it on a picture (taken for educational purposes). Even the woman taking it, thought it to be a rather fine specimen (she sees vulva's nearly daily) and was amazed how I got it so neatly shaven. Apparently I really pay homage to my nick, cause she described it as a beautiful rose :o Just to think that I've been ashamed of it, up until just a few years ago... Really: shame on me!

Yep! Shame on you! Amazing how so many thtink there's something wrong with their bodies!

Bah! perfection is for androids and mannequins!