I masturbate a lot about this guy that i am absolutely wild about both sexually and emitionally... we are still gettting to know each other and i am love stricken... yet he lives a while away from me... long story. I masturbate and think about him and by the end i cry. I feel better afterwards though like iknow i love him. I cry cuz i want it so bad... and i decided yesterday to not masturbate anymore... but i have... i did today and felt sad again. Should i just give up on him, masturbating about him, or just masturbating in general it is really bringing me down... i want him SOOO bad!
Wed, 02/25/2004 - 23:34
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He lives so far away
Well said, archer.
Do something to make the current situation better. Either grit it out and go get him or move on.
I am well acquainted with that feeling- you know the one, "I'll just die if I can't be with him"....Trust me, you won't. If the two of you end up together, then you may realize that, while you love him, he sometimes gets on your last nerve. And if you don't get together, eventually someone will replace him in you heart.
I know it's very romantic to pine away for someone, but the two alternatives (actually getting them or finding someone new) are much more fun.
Why not bring a bit of happiness or closure to this whole situation...just confront of him and tell him that you really are attractedt to him and love him. if you keep on hiding it, i think this whole thing will get worse.
dont give up on him..many ppl have long distance relationships and are always faithful, all u need is a bit of time, a phone, paper n pen
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if u want him so bad....GO GET HIM....dont b a sissy down person, always crying about not having him...do something about it, whether the response by him maybe positive or negative. if its negative then at least u have closure and u can move on and find another love.
Last words : he isnt the only person in the world who is best for you. he isnt the only person who you will love in this lifetime.
go get him
Yea, i dont think it has to do with masterbating.. there is some form of psychological issues goin on here! Sorry.