My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile. When we engage in vaginal penetration, we do it until he cums. He cums before me. That leaves me feeling good but I want to reach orgasm just as he has. So after he cums, I still have his penis inside me and I try to wait a few seconds because I know his penis is sensitive and causes uncomfort and pain if I continue to thrust, etc. After about a minute he either takes his penis out or asks me to get off his penis to wipe himself as well as myself. Sometimes I get off myself, without him asking.
He is 39 years old. I have no problem with him reaching orgasm first as it does take me a bit more to get there. I just wish he would reach orgasm and then after his penis was less sensitive let me continue until I reached orgasm. Is this just too high of an expectation for someone his age? How should I approach this topic with him? Should I just keep thursting until I cum eventhough I know it hurts him some? After he has came his penis goes flaccid (not right away but a while after). [I've tried giving him a handjob to make him hard again but I became frustated and my hand hurt after about 20 minutes of playing with it.] Even though its sensitive, should I give him head to make him hard again? Right away? Should I give him head after a few minutes? How long does it take most 39 year old's to be able to get hard again?
I want to cum on his cock just as he has came in my pussy!
One time he did apologize for cumming so quickly. I think he could tell I wasn't exactly pleased that time. I didn't say anything but the way I quickly got off of him, I'm sure let him know I wasn't pleased. Like a dumbass, quickly without even thinking, I said "Oh its okay. I don't care." Afterwards, I thought about it and how it wasn't at all what I wanted to say. But I couldn't think of a way to say that what I previously said wasnt what I meant without coming out and saying "hey you cum too quickly and this is annoying me."
He is really the only guy I've had sex with. I had another partner prior to him but him and I only had sex about 5 times.
My boyfriend says my pussy is soo tight he has a hard time holding back. Could this be the problem? I know some of his ex's and none of them ever complain about him in bed. To the contrary, they all talked about how great he was in bed. All his female co-workers want to f*** him. When I was introduced to them, several of them told me I was a lucky girl to have him in bed every night. I certainly don't feel like a lucky girl.
Any help from both males and females would greatly be appreaciated. Thanks in advance. 
yeah i agree.
my b/f does good. when i on top, he says he's able to last longer, which is a good thing b/c sometimes it can take me awhile. and he'll hold out as long as i need him too.
if for some reason, like he's just extra horny or its been awhile, and he cums first. then he makes sure i do w/ his fingers or oral.
we also have a small dildo so if we are in a position and he starts to get close or tired, he'll use that on me for a few minutes to keep me going while he catches his breath. then he jumps back in.
definetly have a talk w/ your b/f. im like wally, how come this guy comes higly rated but you aren't getting a good time.
another thing, maybe since the rumors are that he's such "hott stuff" he thinks he doesn't have to try to please anyone. also, since you are younger, he might think you aren't really that experienced and don't know that you are missing out... does that make sense? lol
Hmmm... it's a little hard to understand why a guy who comes so highly recommended by his "ex's" and is lusted after by all his co-workers would be so apparently uninterested in your pleasure. Frankly, there are several "red flags" waving here, but that's not your question.
If you went to a restaurant together, would you sit contentedly at the table and watch him eat even though you're hungry? I think not and this is not that much different.
I agree, you're not such a lucky girl based on what you've posted. You're going to have to work at making him sensitive to your needs. His line that your pussy is too tight is a crock -- no matter how tight it is, that's not an excuse for not paying attention to your sexual needs.
Speak up, Girl. Tell him you're "hungry" and annoyed. He should want to know!