i live with my bestfriend...
he claims to be gay but we have sex regularly and he also fondles me and enjoys playing with my pussy and boobs....
we have also had anal sex.. and i have used a dildo on him which he loves
is he gay or not?
im seriously confused
hmm miss meow, arent you married?, you and psychelover or somethign?
Jamie
O.k.. this is just my opinion and how I view things, but if he is having sex with you then he is either NOT gay or VERY confused.
As much as we might wish for sexuality to be a cut and dried issue, it's not always. A lot of lines get crossed for a lot of different reasons.
I can think of many different scenarios for what has happened, but I think your best bet is to hash this out with him. This is definitely enough to tear even bestfriends apart.
Ask him why, if he thinks of himself as gay, he would even consider having sex with you?
iwanna.. had a good question, have you ever seen him with a guy?
I'm also curious, why would you have sex with him, if you knew he identified as gay?
As a gay man, I can say I fall into, well maybe not "ewww", but definitely the "no thanks" catagory. I have tried it and, without trying to be funny, there was something missing. This has no bearing on the woman involved- she could be a super model and the nicest woman on the planet- and there is just no physical attraction.
Sorry, I keep trying to come up with something, but I think we need more information.
Who started this?
Is this guy "out"?
How old are you both?
Maybe if we know more we can provide better advice.
Well i can definetly tell you he isn't gay...Bi maybe and prolly more straight than that. Have you ever seen him with another man?
sounds like a BloodHound Gang song which goes
"i wish i was queer, so i could get chicks" lol
maybe some guys try this angle b/c girls find gay guys to be more sensitive and can talk to them like a best friend.
me not being gay i wouldn't know but im pretty sure that a totally gay guy wouldn't be turned on boobs or your pussy.
i had a gay guy friend and he was always like eww girls... boobs are ugly... vaginas are nasty looking...etc.
so you get my point.
maybe he just realizes you've caught on to his plan and is just cutting his loses.
ok
keep us updated
hope this helps.
no now everything has stopped..... i asked him notto touch me anymore he doesnt seem phased.
Ha, sounds like he wants to be "friends with benefits" and is saying that to avoid getting into a relationship.
lol after having sex with you he still says he is gay?
I guess he is more confused than you
maybe he just said he was gay so you let him live with you j/k :P
In any case, maybe he is bisexual, just didn't knew until he meet you.