Hi! My fiance and I have been together for a little more than 2 years (been having sex for longer). We have AMAZING sex and we always lay there breathless and in ahhhhh when we are finished. I'm not fat but I'm not as skinny and tone as I used to be when we first started having sex. We have a 9 month old son. Lately, within the last 3 months or so, he hasn't been initiating the sex much at all. He used to make it clear that he wanted me and had to have me everyday. If I pull his pants down and suck his dick or get on it, or course we have sex. BUT, little things haven't worked lately...like playing with him here and there throughout the day or reminding him of how horny I am throughout the day. I miss when he wanted me every day...and I didn't have to work so hard to get him to want to have sex with me.

I don't know what's going on. I'm really beginning to think that it's because I'm not as sexy as I used to be. I've told him this is how I feel and he says that he is just as turned on by me as he has always been. It's really starting to bother me though. I'm pissed of at him by the end of the day when I've come on to him and hinted that I want him to want me and he just goes to sleep. I don't want this to take a toll on our relationship...but I know it will because sex is an important part of any relationship.

What should I do??? Any suggestion or advice would be great! Thanks!