or so it seems!
He is the first guy I've ever known that actually does NOT like blow jobs:eek: ..he told me this when we first started together and I thought "well maybe he just had really bad ones"..so he let me..and he went DOWN! I didnt know what to do!! In my head I was like" omg should i stop? keep going? try harder?"..and if I want to have sex..I can't just turn him on like that *snaps*..his erections are all running on 'penis time'...its so frustrating! We've been together about 5 months now and although the sex is great..he is always on top because if he's not doing all the work..his erection goes away..I want to blow his mind, have REALLY super sex...but I just don't know what to do!:confused: :confused:
Thu, 02/09/2006 - 03:25
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He Doesn't Like Much..
so no one else has had this situation before then??:confused:
I have a friend who has an almost numb penis. Blowjobs don't do it for him because he claims he can't feel them. It isn't sensation that turns him on or gets him off. It's the situation the girl, it's weird, I don't understand it but I thought I'd let you know that you're not the only one to deal with a picky guy.
My husband doesn't "not like" blow jobs, but he's not "thrilled" with them like most guys are. He prefers cumming elsewhere, so when I'm giving him a blow job, he concentrates hard on not cumming, so it's not as enjoyable.
He DOES, however, like it when I use a satin glove on my hand and give him a hand job. Just a suggestion! Good luck!
Well, with my experience. I have learned that when a girl gives me a blow job, I cannot feel it. She has to stroke my penis with her hand as she gives me head. I don't know why, I guess some guys just arent as sensitive :rolleyes:
[QUOTE=Angelicflowers]
He DOES, however, like it when I use a satin glove on my hand and give him a hand job. Just a suggestion! Good luck![/QUOTE]
Oh my ... that sounds incredible! I'm getting really hot just thinking about it! :eek:
Some guys just don't get off to blowjobs. It could be a physical thing, or a mental thing...but it certainly exsists. Sometimes woman don't create enough constant friction when they are sucking. They think if they purse their lips around the head it feels a lot better...this isn't the case. The woman must create a constant friction with their tongue and inside of mouth. I've been with a lot of women that are only creating friction with their pursed-lips...this isn't nearly as nice as full-on tongue and mouth friction.
If the guy goes soft...don't keep trying (unless he wants you to). Just don't make a big deal of it, and move on to brighter pastures.
:)