Hi!
My name is Tania. I'm from Paraguay, South America. So please forgive me if I have spelling mistakes... My english is not so good.
Ok, this is my problem... I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We love each other and everything... well, almost everything is normal on our relationship.
The thing is that my boyfriend never finishes when I do a blow job to him. I try to do everithing.
I don't make any bad faces, because I really love him, and I love every part of his body and I'm able to keep sucking his penis like for 20 minutes but even like that he won't finish...
So please!! Someone, help me. Because every time I do it, I ask him if I am doing somethig wrong, and he says that he's loving it but that even he doesn't know why he never reaches orgasm every time I suck it for him.
So.. thats my problem and I hope someone con help. Bye
My special one had a problem with that when we first got together. Once he stopped thinking about it and climaxed the first time, it was over. He loves it now.
Your guy has to stop thinking about it and he needs to allow himself to get so excited he looses control for the first time. You making amerous noised will also help. Lots of them and loud. Let his penis be vibrated in the back of your throat with your moans and groans. Good luck. Kath
Jaja
Thank you eDJ for the tip.
LOL Really Oberon, I swear I think that girl could have suck
started a B-52 Bomber if she wanted to! She was DYNOMITE!
By the way tanita.....I notice you have some worries about
English language so let me mention this web site which is multi
language translation FREE to English. It may help when you
are stuck with more complicated thoughts than you can express in English.
FreeTranslation.com
It would be interesting to hear the voice of a latin lady express her sexual feelings thru her "feminine mystique".(mistique femenino) <-- Acabo de utilizar el sitio web de traductor para eso.
Utilice los "Favoritos" en su Examinador de Explorador para salvar el sitio web de Traductor tan usted lo tendrá se prepara para utilizar.
eDJ
LOL, EDj. You are so right about the "gentle" thing. Even guys seem to fall into this "problem". I've had to point out to a few that I'd let them know if they got too rough...lol.
Anyway, for the question "What am I doing wrong?". Probably nothing. I, too, fall into that catagory that rarely orgasm from oral. It feels GREAT, but there usually isn't enough "pressure" to get me off.
The main thing to remember is that as long as HE'S happy, don't worry about it. There are many ways to orgasm... and they ALL feel pretty darn good.
I always had trouble when girls I knew gave me blow jobs or sucked me. Most were gentle with me and I was close a few times. Most times I had to masturbate for her and then let her suck and swallow me. This went on for some time.
I was with a different girl later and she stood me against a
wall and told me she would suck me hard! It felt like she would shove me thru the wall at one point she was so forceful.
She must have sucked me 15 minutes or more and I felt the tengle I feel before I cum and then I exploded for her.
I had to lay on the floor beside her where she was on her knees. She had allowed her saliva to poor over her breast
and I thought it was my cum all over her. She smiled, got up
went to the bathroom and cleaned herself up and came back to me. The trick was she had given me oral so hard, not just the soft tongue and lips sucking that feels good but doesn't make a guy cum. If you watch a guy masturbate, we tend to
do it hard in order to cum. Girls are gentle by nature and may
be afraid to be so aggresive. Some men will tell a woman that he wants her to suck him HARD and tell her harder harder as she does it. These are guys who have learned what works for them.
Good luck.
eDJ
Thank you so much for the tips!
If it doesn't bother you, i'll let you know the results!
Try a little anal massage while you are doing it. Will he let you finger him and massage his prostrate? That might do the trick!
Can you make him cum with your hand? If so, dothat to get him right tothe point and then switch.
Change it up! Stimulate the head of his penis with your toungue and mouth... this is a very sensative area.
As Camman said, use your hand to jerk him while you suck. Try lubing your hand with saliva.
DO NOT suck in the same motion the entire time!
Turn your head back and forth as you move up and down. Change speeds... fast...slow..fast fast slow.
Focus on the tip of his penis for a little while, and then take him all in.
Lick his inner thighs, gently suck on his sack. Be creative!!!
If this does not work... then it's not you. It's him!
Hope this helps!
Kathleen
Thanks for the advice!
I'll try what camman says and if doesn't work, then I'll know that he is, like you said, a guy that can't reach orgasm whith oral...
tHANKSSSSSS
your not doing anything wrong. An ex of mine couldn't cum from head either. He just could not do it. He told me I was good and everything, but it was disappointing to see that he would not orgasm from it. I realized that he simply can not cum from oral sex. Some guys are just like that. It isn't that you are doing anything wrong at all, so don't feel bad about it.
Sometimes we need a more strong sensation. Head alone is great you are probably doing it great . He can get off to a hand-job right?
Try after a whiel to suck just the head of his penise, then use your hand and jerk off his base. The stong sensation of ur hand and the warmth of your mouth will probaly set him off pretty soon.
If it is not goin fast enof give ur self a min breack from the blowjob and just give a handjob as fast as u can to get him closer till u are able to start again.
Anyhows good luck!
i can't orgasm from oral either. it's not something you're doing wrong. since i haven't figured out how to i can't really offer advice, but like i said, it's not something you're doing wrong. some guys just can't for one reason or another. if he's liking it, just do it for his pleasure, as long as you are comfortable doing that. despite not orgasming, it feels great.