1. he should masturbate beforehand to take the edge off
2. always use a condom which will decrease his sensitivity a bit
3. use a cockring to maintain his erection whether he orgasms/ejaculates or not

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In addition to the information provided by EEK, I recommend that the two of you read this article and then put the two techniques into practice.

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

All of the above techniques will work, together or individually. The exercise requires that the two of you practice it, this he cannot do alone.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

-doc

Well, you could try using an ordinary condom. Most condoms decrease the sensitivity for the man somewhat. If that doesn't work, he could try a condom such as Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms. These condoms come with a desensitizing lubricant which helps him to last longer.

I usually get myself off if I know I am having sex that night. It definitely helps me last longer. The orgasm won't be as intense when I cum during sex, but it still feels pretty damn good.

He should masturbate first and use a condom just to help decrease the sensitivity.

It appears, teena, that that has been suggested.