I have been with my guy for a little bit now and our sex life is amazing. But he can only get off when he masturbates. I feel like I am not doing my job right. Please help.
Mon, 10/06/2008 - 22:41
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He Can't Get Off
I'm afraid that any good information is locked in his head. I would just be telling you what I'd like my wife to do and I'm not sure that'll help. Ask him if there's a fantasy he'd like to act out. That'll at least give you an idea of what he's into.
I just want to please him.
You need to put a little more info here. Just saying you want to get him off and you want to please him isnt enough. Does it take him a long time to get off or what?
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It is nice that you want to please and there are many good ideas around this Board. Ultimately, he may need to take some action for himself.