My boyfriend loves to watch porno while we make love. He does not do it all the time, but he wants to most of the time. He will ask me everytime we are intimate. The thing is he always is watching porno. He watches it in the morning b4 he goes to work and has to get off to it. He will watch it when i am not home and leave the DVDs everywhere. Its really starting to bother me when it comes to making love. I have talked to him and told him it bothers me but he says he just needs to watch it. Guys... why? Girls.... Help?
Sat, 09/04/2004 - 16:09
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Having sex while watching PORNO
i see nothing wrong with porn, every guy watches porn, there is nothing wrong with the girl, except for the fact that she is not there when he is horny, he wants to watch porn during sex to do something different, watch it with him, enjoy it. I tried it once with my b/f and now we do it all the time
Yep, just talk it over.
Personally I'm rather fond of women that enjoy their porn, but I don't watch it when I'm having sex.
Cheers,
Ringo
Well, it almost sounds as though he is obsessed with his porn. In my opinion, if he can't respect your wishes regarding the porn, then perhaps he isn't the guy for you. Talk to him about it, this time be a little more forceful about your concerns. Tell him that you aren't comfortable with it anymore, and if he can't respect that, well, I guess you'd have your answer.
I'd suggest talking to him and trying to reach some sort of compromise. Tell him you find the porn distracting when you just want it to be the two of you together. If he's not interested in making love with you without the porn, then you have a problem. Rather, he has the problem, but you have to decide how to deal with it. Just remember if he's not even willing to talk about this, you can't fix it on your own- unless you're just willing to accept it.
Hopefully, you'll be able to reach that compromise... he can have his porn any other time, just not with you.
Take care and good luck.