much better. in the first post you wrote '9 weeks' it kind of confused me.
she wants sex? if you want to have sex and you believe that you are comfortable enough to have sex, and she says that shes fine with having sex or shes trying to 'pressure you into having sex' do it as long as you're ready. basically no one on this entire website can tell you that you're ready or that you're comfortable except you. so it all rests on you and not the comments of everyone else.
however, if she hasn't mentioned anything about wanting to have sex make sure that she's ready for it and comfortable with it as well
If your girlfriend is on the younger side she may not be fully developed and you run the risk of hurting her. There is no certain time that you should start having sex by. My brother dated his girlfriend for 4 years and didn't have sex until they were married. I however started having sex with my girlfriend after 6 months of dating. It all depends on the people involved.
and like ditzy said, we cant tell you that you are ready (or not). emotionally, phsyically they can, but im not going to say anything about that. if you think you are ready (and your gf thinks she is too) then by all means go ahead, you know?
[QUOTE=Earnhardt8]Ok i had my gf for about 8 months! never had sex with her yet, should I after almost 9 weeks?[/QUOTE]
Woah man, you don't have a set time to have sex, don't try and scheduel it, just do what feels right, if you feel like it and she feesl like it then great, don't make it as if it's an apointment or something
When the moods right go for it, providing your both ready :p
can you please reword what you're trying to ask. i'm having a hard time comprehending. do you mean 9 months? or.. what?
I mean, i had my gf for about! 9 months, should i have sex with her, she kinda wants me too
better?
much better. in the first post you wrote '9 weeks' it kind of confused me.
she wants sex? if you want to have sex and you believe that you are comfortable enough to have sex, and she says that shes fine with having sex or shes trying to 'pressure you into having sex' do it as long as you're ready. basically no one on this entire website can tell you that you're ready or that you're comfortable except you. so it all rests on you and not the comments of everyone else.
however, if she hasn't mentioned anything about wanting to have sex make sure that she's ready for it and comfortable with it as well
How old are you and your girlfriend?
If your girlfriend is on the younger side she may not be fully developed and you run the risk of hurting her. There is no certain time that you should start having sex by. My brother dated his girlfriend for 4 years and didn't have sex until they were married. I however started having sex with my girlfriend after 6 months of dating. It all depends on the people involved.
agreed with storm.
and like ditzy said, we cant tell you that you are ready (or not). emotionally, phsyically they can, but im not going to say anything about that. if you think you are ready (and your gf thinks she is too) then by all means go ahead, you know?
[QUOTE=Earnhardt8]Ok i had my gf for about 8 months! never had sex with her yet, should I after almost 9 weeks?[/QUOTE]
Woah man, you don't have a set time to have sex, don't try and scheduel it, just do what feels right, if you feel like it and she feesl like it then great, don't make it as if it's an apointment or something
When the moods right go for it, providing your both ready :p
~*~ Law ~*~
and i like what he said.
good point, that would be putting sex on a schedule, which shouldnt be done should it?