I have read your post. If you don’t cum during sex so I think it’s not normal. You need to get checkup on it as soon as possible.

Yes, and there are many reasons for it; ranging from anxiety about not having orgasms to being physically/mentally/emotionally unable to orgasm.

The first thing to do is to consult a licensed medical professional to rule out any physical ills.

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> i have been having sex with my girlfriend for a year. i wear condom but i have never been able to cum during sex is this normal at all. like i have never had an orgams anyone help??

This is my complaint with condoms, also. Because they add a layer of insulation around the penis, friction is greatly reduced, sometimes to the point that there is not a sufficient amount to build arousal. For many of us this reduction in sensation is more an annoyance that a problem.

Here are a couple of suggestions: first, add some lube around the glans of your penis before rolling on the condom. Doing so will give it more "wiggle room" and transfer more friction; second, switch condoms and use those made of poly or natural pig skin.

If you are in a monogamous relationship with no chance of one or both of you having multiple partners--and, you have been checked and are both disease free, then try out the natural condoms. These are very thin so will transfer more friction; the down side is that they do not stop the transfer of cooties so STDs can be transferred between partners. Natural condoms do not hold up well to "rough" sex, so use with care.

Third on my list of suggestions is to make sure you are very very aroused before beginning intercourse. Get yourself to the brink of a climax, yet not so close that you cannot move around and get into position, before beginning intercourse. All too often nowadays guys operated under the misguided notion that the way to achieve a climax is from lots and LOTS of stroking and thrusting. WRONG! especially so when there is difficulty building enough friction. So, get thee to the brink of a climax by whatever means, then invite your girlfriend to apply the lube just to the glans, and roll on the condom. Using this approach should make it much easier to trigger an orgasm.

Please, use condoms. Regardless of relationship etc. etc. etc. Part of being an adult is accepting the rules of play and showing respect for her as well as respect for yourself. Orgasms are NOT worth dying for so why take chances.

Unless you are 40 years or older, condoms may not be your problem.

Please seek medical assistance.

I think it’s common and normal.
You don’t need to worry about it. Just enjoy!

jhon,

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