Kind of vague....
What kind of positions have you already tried?
Is this a new problem w/ him? or you?
Are you still a virgin? ever been fingered?
Need a little more info
demonbuttercup - we have tried missionary, me on top, and doggy. it goes in easiest doggy, but i don't like that position so much, it does nothing for me. no, i am not though i recently had sex for the first time. yeah i have been fingered lol. i haven't asked if he has had this problem before, and since he is the first person i have had sex with is him, i would not have known if its a problem with me. he has said i am very tight down below.
ducy - i have it just won't go!! it gets partway in then.. idk. it wont move anywhere.
Okay to expand on my previous statement which was not understood:
1. get a book on human anatomy and study it - both you and your guy
2.he should pay VERY close attention to what he's doing - for example he should be KNEELING between your legs in missionary, not lying on top of you, so he can see where he's going and what he's doing, and using the head of his penis to caress your G-Spot after
3. having done at least 23 minutes of intense foreplay and
4. ensuring sufficient lubrication is present even if he has to add some from a bottle
5. and engage in sexual congress frequently as is possible with you on bcps and him wearing a condom.
The more you do it - the better you get at it and - the better it gets.
First time attempting sex and I'm having the exact same problem. His penis does not seem to fit into my vagina; am I'm just too tight? He has been fingering me a lot, but hasn't managed to get in more than one finger. I think it's just a lack of experience from both parties. I'm guessing it's just a matter of practice.
[quote=Contessa;214277]First time attempting sex and I'm having the exact same problem. His penis does not seem to fit into my vagina; am I'm just too tight? He has been fingering me a lot, but hasn't managed to get in more than one finger. I think it's just a lack of experience from both parties. I'm guessing it's just a matter of practice.[/quote]Practice makes perfect. You do not learn to ride a bike over night. You may be tightening up the muscles unconsciously or out of nerves. Use plenty of lube and foreplay---practice & practice.
Kind of vague....
What kind of positions have you already tried?
Is this a new problem w/ him? or you?
Are you still a virgin? ever been fingered?
Need a little more info
Study anatomy; look where you're going, guy; foreplay; lubrication; practice.
Why dont you guide it in for him?
Is it softness on his part or tightness on your part?
demonbuttercup - we have tried missionary, me on top, and doggy. it goes in easiest doggy, but i don't like that position so much, it does nothing for me. no, i am not though i recently had sex for the first time. yeah i have been fingered lol. i haven't asked if he has had this problem before, and since he is the first person i have had sex with is him, i would not have known if its a problem with me. he has said i am very tight down below.
ducy - i have it just won't go!! it gets partway in then.. idk. it wont move anywhere.
brandye- i think its both.
Okay to expand on my previous statement which was not understood:
1. get a book on human anatomy and study it - both you and your guy
2.he should pay VERY close attention to what he's doing - for example he should be KNEELING between your legs in missionary, not lying on top of you, so he can see where he's going and what he's doing, and using the head of his penis to caress your G-Spot after
3. having done at least 23 minutes of intense foreplay and
4. ensuring sufficient lubrication is present even if he has to add some from a bottle
5. and engage in sexual congress frequently as is possible with you on bcps and him wearing a condom.
The more you do it - the better you get at it and - the better it gets.
thanks. you guys helped a lot, i'll try those
It might be due to insufficient lubrication. Try more foreplay, and use some lubricant.
Ive had the same problem only with inserting it in from behind instead I just cant seem to get it it always slides foward any way to do it better
First time attempting sex and I'm having the exact same problem. His penis does not seem to fit into my vagina; am I'm just too tight? He has been fingering me a lot, but hasn't managed to get in more than one finger. I think it's just a lack of experience from both parties. I'm guessing it's just a matter of practice.
[quote=Contessa;214277]First time attempting sex and I'm having the exact same problem. His penis does not seem to fit into my vagina; am I'm just too tight? He has been fingering me a lot, but hasn't managed to get in more than one finger. I think it's just a lack of experience from both parties. I'm guessing it's just a matter of practice.[/quote]Practice makes perfect. You do not learn to ride a bike over night. You may be tightening up the muscles unconsciously or out of nerves. Use plenty of lube and foreplay---practice & practice.