My boyfriend recently told me he'd like to have sex outdoors. I've done it a few times, but years ago when I was living in the grounds of a castle with lots of private land. So now that I live in a (small) city with no car, does anyone have any advice about how we go about doing this without being arrested for indecent exposure?!
It's a really big step for my boyfriend to consider something like this, and so I'd rather it was a positive, unrushed experience, being able to enjoy being outside and not TOO concerned about being stumbled upon!
First to avoid the major issue---don't get caught by the cops! Take a blanket, find a remote spot, watch out for poison ivy, etc. take bottoms only off if you are that worried, and just have fun. Pack a picnic, have lunch and then make him your dessert! Ps...most "passer by's" will just sneak a peak!
haha i tried this once while me and my guy were walking through a park...it wasn't really planned...we happened to find a little creek with some trees covering it, and one of the trees had a perfect spot to sit in...
i always wear skirts so neither of us really had to get undressed :p
make sure u have somethingto lay down on like a jacket. thats my rule!
Sex outdoors is great. I have done some light fingering on her and she has given me a handjob. We were laying down on blankets and had one over us. Or out hiking, be have left the trail and found a spot to have some fun. I had a boat for awhile and we used to go out in the lake on that and get naked and have sex. Nothing like feeling the sun on your butt during intercourse. Just be a little creative and careful if you try it in a park. At night is good after dark in the park. Just be done before the park is closed if they have times posted. One good way to get caught is in the park after hours.
Do not forget to use insect repellant!
Yes, poison ivy on your rump is to be avoided - and there isn't nearly enough room in helicopters.
Had some outdoor sex recently which was great. By describing the situation, I think that will be the best way to encourage others to try something like this or just enjoying outdoor sex.
We were on vacation on a beach and had gone out for a walk one evening. After walking awhile, we decided to sit and just enjoy the waves and nice temperature, so we walked away from the water's edge and found a nice spot next to a grassy area and a vacant condo. Fortunately we had brought our towels with us so we had someting to sit and lay on. My wife surprised me not too long after sitting down by removing her shirt and bikini top. She said she felt like being naked. This is not something she has done before, but I sure didn't mind. So I removed my shirt and not too long after that we were playing with each others nipples.
It then progressed to our hands down each others bottoms and then removing our swimsuits completely so we were naked. So far no one was on the beach so we could continue and just seeing her totally naked laying on the beach was a nice visual. She leaned over and started to suck on my cock and I just laid back and enjoyed some nice oral sex on me. I then had to taste her and had her lay back and I enjoyed licking and tasting her vulva. After about 10 minutes of that I moved up and slowly inserted my penis in her vagina. I just enjoyed watching my penis going in and out of her and slowly increased the speed. It was such a turn on to see her laying there naked and then looking down as I pumped away on her.
In the middle of enjoying intercourse, I glanced over my shoulder and saw a couple walking past us down at the water's edge. I was so enjoying f***ing on the beach and they had just walked past us and were walking away, so I wasn't about to stop.They were lower down on the beach from us and I only saw their heads, so I don't know if they even saw us. So we just continued on for awhile. We took a short break and then spotted a couple of other persons coming along the beach and they were higher up on the beach. So we slipped our swim suits on and headed back to the hotel room for more sex and to finish it off.
What a great time it was. The mental picture of the time we had will last a long time and the excitement was unbelievable. I highly recommend this if you ever find yourself in the right situation.
Naked snow angels in the middle of a Pennsylvania winter however is NOT recommended.
i did it in a park with my boyfriend which was fairly enjoyable accept he was quite on edge so i dont think we'll be doing it again.
It's MINUS 17 degrees here, so I'd advise on wearing a snowsuit , you may find things awkward;)
I never did tell you how I got poison ivy on my rump, did I?
The worst problem I ever had having sex outside was getting sand in bad places but it was worth it.
Haha I want to hear the story EEK, I had a similar experience with poison ivy except not really from full sex. Had a g/f that dragged me to a wooded area during a party and wanted to makeout, she decided to get into it and was grinding the ground a bit. She had it full blown and in areas you arent supposed to get it :p. I got lucky and had it on my knees and elbows. :D
Ah yes! The woman always gets the worst of it! *EG*
A bench in a park is your best bet, and wear a skirt or dress for easy access. Then you can be on top easily, and if you're worried someone is near, you can just pull the skirt down and he can zip his pants. In my experience with outdoor/public place sex, that was definitely the best. It's best to find a wooded or partially wooded area and/or do it when it's dark... in that circumstance there's not really a way for a passerby to tell whether you're making out or doing more. And whatever you do, beware concrete or your knees will take a while to forgive you.
Or in the car. Or on the car. Always keep a large blanket in the trunk along with a box of wet wipes. Never be without condoms and lubricant but store them carefully. I have a leather backpack in the back of my Expedition that holds anything that might be needed, a blanket, and a pillow. Naturally the blanket and pillow fabrics match the interior of my truck. Color-coordination, you understand. That way the black leather cuffs etc.adds a nice dramatic touch to the decor.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;201436]Or in the car. Or on the car. Always keep a large blanket in the trunk along with a box of wet wipes. Never be without condoms and lubricant but store them carefully. [/QUOTE]
Don't keep condoms in the glove box unless you cycle through them very quickly. Warmth from the engine/ heater vents tend to make the glove box warm, which can degrade the condom.
But back to the topic on hand, if you're doing it under the sun, make sure that the sessions aren't too long (either that or wear sunscreen), because you're exposing areas that are usually shielded from sunlight 100% of the time.
If you want both outdoors and privacy, being in a tent has a nice feel.