Join a club and read the information on the forum about dating and new relationships,and thats the thing don't just hook up with the first girl that takes a shine to you.Talk to girls at school who share the same classes and interests and ask them to the mall for a soda or to see a movie.Oh and if you have a lot of close friends who are girls then you must be doing something right for them to like you and want to become friends

umm you need to have more than looks if you want a girlfriend, hell one of my friends is bordering ugly but he knows how to talk to girls and he can get them left and right. have confidence, take risks and try.

[QUOTE=ccfalons76;262164]im not the hottest guy ever but i have alot of close girl friends im 16 and i need some suggestions on how to get girls to like me im really sweet:(:confused:[/QUOTE]

Hiya,
I'm not really certain what you are asking--on the one hand you say you have a lot of close friends who are girls; on the other hand you want to know how to get girls to like you. This seems like an oxymoron to me? Please clarify so that I/we can better help you.

A person's degree of "hotness" is secondary; your personality, your integrity, your sense of humor, your reliability, your goals, your dress and demeanor, all share equal primary importance when it comes to making friends and dating.

If you dress in sloppy clothes with your pants down around your thighs, forget getting most girls. If you have no goals in life (even if only transitory) few girls are going to hitch a ride on your star. If you do not display some sense of humor once in a while, are glum, quiet, then what about you is there that will interest others? If you are unreliable saying you will do something and then unexpectedly do not, no one is going to trust you, thus be around you.

If you want one or more girls to like you, work on your personality if need be. If it is already great, find ways of showing others.

If you want to date, then ask one or more of the girls in your circle of friends to go with you after school for a soft drink and piece of pie, etc., and if all goes well, ask her out on a date. You can also just ask one or more girls on a date. If you know what a girl likes to do, then invite her to do that activity with you. If you do not, then simply invite her to a good worthwhile movie. You then have the option to include desert afterward or perhaps dinner beforehand--whatever is appropriate. One reason for dating among several is so that we get to know people better than is possible from simply being casual friends with him/her. Asking one or more of your friends out is a good place to begin. Later, you can ask people out that you do not know as well.

Think of it this way, if you do not step up and ask, you won't get a "yes", or a "no". People who make their living in direct sales {insurance, auto sales, etc.) are always asking for the sale; often they receive a "no" answer, however, this does not keep them from asking others and eventually they get a "yes". Do the same and do not be dejected if you get some declines.

It is important to learn whether the declined invitation is permanent, or, just for that particular date and time. You can ask if not certain. Once in a while a girls will be interested yet decline because she will be busy. She should offer say so and offer an alternate date and time, yet may be too inexperienced in the social graces to do so. So, you may have to do some "fishing" without being obnoxious.

Are you worried about what to talk about with a girl? It is important to understand that most girls by nature are chatty creatures. Ask them a question and be prepared to listen for half an hour! Therein lies a clue about talking with women. You do not always have to have discussion, just ask a leading question, listen, and every so often interject a comment or thought.

I recommend that you familiarize yourself with the Index found at the top of the main screen. It contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to information that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. If you click on the site's Home Page, you will find even more information. There are articles on the subject of dating, so begin with these and then read all of the others and add the information to what you already know.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

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