i've been dating my bf for almost 5 years...we had a long distance thing for awhile and now we have just recently moved in together. My sex life has went downhill in the past couple weeks. He has went from begging me for sex (and i gave him sex 9times out of 10), to me begging him. He says he just tired from work and its not me. but it kinda upsets me, do you think i'm being too sensitive? or do you think hes lost interest in it now that he can have it whenever he wants? We went from having sex everyday to many once a week if i'm lucky. i need opinions
Sat, 04/29/2006 - 09:16
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Has the Spark Fizzled?
Constant closeness may not be what he expected. Sounds like you two have some hard talking and tough decisions ahead.
Or he could just be tired from work.
Communication is the cornerstone of a successful relationship.
You need to be asking him not us. He knows the answer, all any of us can do is speculate.
Act like you dont want it.
When you say, you're begging him, what exactly do you mean? Are you doing more than just saying, "Hey, honey, let's do it?"
But like Brandye said, it may be that the constat togetherness isn't exactly what he expected. Or like Guyat Desk (I think) said, he may just be really tired from work. What's he doing at work? Is his job physically demanding? Mentally demanding? Is it different than what he was doing before?
Also, living together is different than having an LDR. Of course, when you only see each other at certain times, you're goinbg to want to be sure to make the most of every m inute. If you know the next time you're going to get "some" isn't going to be for 2 weeks, you definitely want to make sure you get it now--no matter how tired you are. But when you have the option every single day...well, you can always do it tomorrow. Perhaps it is time to spice things up in the bedroom? Just a thought or two for you. ;-)
Best of Luck!