Penny, demonbuttercup hit it right on the mark. Just stroke him... I imagine he's at full staff when he puts your hand down his pants, right? If he's not, maybe he needs some initial stimulation... my advice would be just to touch him and feel him out.

Ya, shes right. I never had a handjob...nor Gf...But...I know...what I like...You just gotta ask...Dont be shy...guys love girls who ask their man what they want

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i dunno why he decide to delete whatever he had put there.

umm learning how much pressure to use kind of just comes w/ experience. well it did w/ me at least.
enough that they can feel something but not too hard esp on the balls. that might hurt.
as far as how fast. start out slow at first just caressing. if he wants you to move on to a full blown handjob then maybe he'll help you out on how much faster and harder you need to go.
dont feel embarrassed to ask him what feels good. every guy likes different things. i mean how else are you supposed to learn. make sure you do the same w/ him. tell him what feels good for you. open the lines of communication and you both will be much happier

well it kinda depends
if its on the outside of his boxers, etc, then i just run my hand up and down his shaft and down to massage his balls.
if its completely bare you can do the same but then usually wrap your hand around his shaft and start moving up and down. also tease the tip a bit w/ your finger tips.
ill let the guys tell you what else they like as well, id be curious

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