you don't have to start worrying yet, you can ask him how he does it himself ( which is most likely the way that feels best)

Hi,
Did you happen upon any of my many posts that recommend teaching each other?

We all know and understand the mechanics of stroking a penis and fingering a clitoris yet there is more--the fine art of the technique. Within a few days of first learning to masturbate each of us develops a pattern of movements, rhythms, and, pressures that is unique and specific to each of us. If we are off the mark a bit either the orgasm will not happen, or, it will be less than desired.

Because of this, I recommend that you encourage your boyfriend to demonstrate how he masturbates and then to teach you the specifics that are unique to him by taking your hand in his and guiding your movements several times until you learn to mimic what he does. The same is true for you with him!

As Brandye states, above, moving the skin within your grasp is where it all begins, yet it is the uniqueness of this that must be taught. The why has been noted, above.

Good luck. Got quesitons?

That is how it all starts!!! Keep going and new ideas and twists will develop.

Not necessarily "taught." Certainly "learned" and there is a big difference.

One key is to not be too gentle with clasping and stroking his penis. Maybe you could introduce some lubrication which I enjoy. I really enjoy it when my partner strokes my penis with a firm grasp and rubs it up and down and uses a twisting motion. Then with her other hand she clasps my balls and squeezes and strokes those. If he is willing to show you what feels good it does help and maybe you can show him what feels good on you so when he fingers you he can hit the right spots. Plus watching each other pleasure themselves can be very fun.

You can stroke the penis dry, and, you can stroke the penis, wet. The end result is the same, although the journey to climax is entirely different. Stroking with a dry hand is generally not as intense as when the penis is lubricated. Also, when lubed, you can lightly graze over the skin not moving it within your grasp. This can result in much more intense sensations.

Here is a wonderful website devoted to male masturbation. The how-to technique section is very useful to women, also.

www.jackinworld.com

Learn where you man's hotspots are located. The A#1 location is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft on the underside of the penis). You will also find one or more secondary hotspots on the Corona Rim. Rubbing these will bring him to the brink of an orgasm and then past the point of no return quickly, regardless of what else you do.

I gotta agree, when I gave a bf a handjob after having watched him, he later told me that he had never noticed what he was doing with his other hand - he had it pressed against his prostrate and til I did it (after having watched him) he never noticed that he was doing that. watching him can definitely help.