I started when I was barely fifteen and it was a well planned and very purposeful event. Within a very few months I realized that sweating out my period each month, no matter how carefull, was not worth the very little pleasure I was gaining. I stopped for quite a while, discovered my g/f and I who drawn our b/f into this could keep one another quite happy. Several years later I could handle the physical and, expecially, the emotional sides much better.

Good idea, Kahuna.

My first time was at age 18, just before my birthday with someone I am madly in love with. I will say however that we dated throughout highschool and mutually agreed to not engage in sexual intercourse until we were both in college. We both knew far to many people that had sex in highschool and regretted it for any number of reasons, including pregnancy and general psychological immaturity. I'm glad I waited until then, and I don't regret it.

i was 17 and it was long overdue. I had wanted to have sex my 2 previous bf's (back when i was 15 or 16) but they were witing for marraige. My first time was spontaneous and he regreted it afterwards for a while, but i didnt. I didnt even bleed becasue he had been fingering me hard lately , trying to "stretch me out". I did bleed a lil the 2nd time though. I dont regret my first time or who it was with. I do regret however, what the relationship developed into later.

I didn't have sex early. Wish that I had!

Wait?!?! HAH! I began early and have NEVER regretted it.

I was 18 and am still totally in love with the guy (he was a virgin too).

We are still going strong (survived 13 weeks of hell when he was at boot camp), planning on getting hitched and have never regretted having sex.

He actually proposed to me after our first time and it was pretty sweet because he calls me his "first, last, and only."

(I know, I know, you guys are all vomiting all over your keyboards.)

i was 14 and i did regret it a bit later afterwards, she was much older and experienced and well... tried showing me the ropes so to speak.. but looking back now i am thankful, i learnt alot from her.

Good luck to you, Sass!

(No, I didn't vomit, ty.)

My story's actually similar to SexySass69. My boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other the summer after our sophomore year in high school and I don't regret it at all. It made our relationship stronger and connected us even more than we already were.

14 was in love, and no regret.

this thread isnt reli being used for wot its supposed to, no one seems to regret it at all.

my gf had sex wen she was 15 and she didn't love the guy and reli regrets it
i lost my virginity to her wen i was 17 and i dont regret it, although it reli gets on my nerves sometimes knowing that shes had sex with someone else because we are so serious about each other. I just wanted to ask, am i just bein stupid? cos she doesnt reli understand

Yes monkey - it is stupid to worry and get upset about the past since you cannot change what happened. Get over it or get lost.

I was 20 years 11 months and 30 days 22 hours old. I remember this because I was waiting for my 21st birthday don’t regret waiting ( what I missed out on in time I have made up for now LOL) :D

I was 16, i didnt even finish up as i had to leave to get the last bus lol. Cant remember the first time i came from having sex.
I dont really regret it. I do wish it was lost to a more sexually exciting girl rather than some boring saggy boobed christian.

[QUOTE=Sirene;168318]I was 16, i didnt even finish up as i had to leave to get the last bus lol. Cant remember the first time i came from having sex.
I dont really regret it. I do wish it was lost to a more sexually exciting girl rather than some boring saggy boobed christian.[/QUOTE]

tough one as i said before we all make mistakes LOL:D

Sirene...you refer to women w/saggy boobs and Christians all the time, I am beginning to think you have a unrealized fetish there...the ideal woman may be "The Church Lady" from Saturday Night Live. Geez...ease up not all Christians (or Catholics) are sexually repressed, just as all older women don't have saggy boobs!

[QUOTE=sera300;168357]Sirene...you refer to women w/saggy boobs and Christians all the time, I am beginning to think you have a unrealized fetish there...the ideal woman may be "The Church Lady" from Saturday Night Live. Geez...ease up not all Christians (or Catholics) are sexually repressed, just as all older women don't have saggy boobs![/QUOTE]

If they're not sexually repressed then they're having sex, in which case they're not preoper christians unless they're married.

I dont have a fetish for them, I hate them & what they stand for.
I havent ever seen an older woman with perfect perky boobs. Gravity hits them all.

i was 14 when i started. i rode my sisters pink bike in the middle of the night to this girls house and i didnt even know it was gonna happen. her dad came to the bedroom door and i hid in the closet till he left and then it went down. had no idea what-so-ever what i was doing but it was fun. the first time is always the greatest because you remember it FOREVER. my advice is to just do what comes natural and learn from it. like kissing.dont be afraid to ask question either

I can't wait until Sirene hits 45!! How much you want to bet he'll still be 'perky'? *evil laughter!*

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;168529]I can't wait until Sirene hits 45!! How much you want to bet he'll still be 'perky'? *evil laughter!*[/QUOTE]

I dont have tits, & I dont plan on being a fat ass when Im 45.
I dont see me having any problem with sag, except maybe my balls will dangle like a mofo.

Aight Sirene,you da man!!ROFLMAOPIMP

Sirene:

Just watch out for the "beer belly" and the big butt!!! Keeping the 6 packs abs can be done, it's just a bit more work after 40!!!

I think this is a good idea for a thread.

I first had sex one month after my 14th birthday, with my first "real" boyfriend. He was 17. A senior in HS while I was a freshman in HS. We had been dating for 8 months, and the whole time he had been getting progressively more physical with me. I was never really comfortable with it, but I went along with whatever he wanted because all of my other friends were having sex, and I thought it was something that you were just supposed to do when you were in a relationship with someone. My BF kept trying to initiate sex with me the whole time we were together, but I would always turn him down. At first he acted understanding and said we could wait until I was ready. Then he started getting more and more upset about the fact that I wanted to wait. Eventually he would start fights with me when I wouldn't have sex with him, he would ignore me if I didn't want to do anything sexual, and would basically act like a total ass until I gave in. I had sex with him because I was afraid that he was going to break up with me if I didn't. I thought that's what I had to do to be a good girlfriend - since all the other girls I knew were having sex with their bf's at the time. It didn't hurt but it wasn't enjoyable at all. I never had an orgasm with him and sex didn't really do much for me. For a couple years my girlfriends and I thought that sex was something that was only supposed to be pleasurable for a man, and it's like a chore that you have to do to be a good girlfriend and keep your man around.

Two months after losing my virginity to him, I found out he had cheated on me with another young girl in our circle of friends. Thus ended that relationship! I didn't have sex again for another two years, when I found a guy that I had deep feelings for and when we had been dating for a long time.

I was 18 when i lost my virginity a week before my 19th birthday which was this january. I was with my boyfriend a year and a half before we had sex properly, we'd done other stuff for a year before though so it had really stretched me out so i didn't bleed and it wasn't painful so I would suggest doing other stuff before you have proper intercourse just to make it easier and more enjoyable,we tried a few times before that but it didn't work cus i was too nervous. But we both waited til teh time was right and it was amazing! =D so just wait til you find someone you really love and you'll love it