Hey.
I'm starting to plan early, as you'll see later. Why? Because I'm apart from my boyfriend for the summer and I miss him. So, when better to start planning a night of debauchery on his birthday?
Well, he is fortunate (in my opinion, at least,) to have his birthday on October 31st. Yep. Halloween. The PERFECT night to play dress up.
However- I'm woefully inexperienced in this type of thing. My boyfriend, though reserved, quiet, and a gentleman about it- is a very visual person. He would never say it outright- but I've noticed over time. He likes to watch. He enjoys positions more when he CAN watch. In fact, he gets more horny when hes able to please me and watch and hear that happen then if I go down on him myself.
He'd never say it. He's TOO nice for his own good. He is a kind, sweet gentleman through and through- a real prince charming. Well, I want to give him a night where he doesn't have to be so sweet and reserved.
Thats not to say I'm not. I'm relatively new to sex- I lost my virginity to him about 4 months ago. I'm working on becoming more open- we both are.
So- if you could see your girlfriend wearing ANYTHING- what would you wish she was wearing? Keep the Halloween bit in mind- and don't just say 'nothing!'
How about a big red bow with nothing else?
School girl. Have him role play as the teacher who needs to teach his noisy student to be quiet in class. It's so hot.
You could so something a little bit more generic - slave girl and her master.
Uh, all sorts of stuff! Nurse and doctor, you know, the possibilities are endless.
As for it being Halloween... maybe dress up as an animal, a perky little mouse might do it. Don't do anything to Halloween-ish; it needs to be subtle but sexy.
Good luck. Dress up is so much fun.
:) How about some thigh-hi stockings and strappy heels with no underwear?
sweatpants, a tshirt, and a smile
sorry, my girlfriend and i dont really get into the dressup thing-we like to keep that stuff casual cuz it really doesnt matter. if hes been away all summer, hes not going to care what you're wearing, he'll just want to get if off you
Depend son the look you want to portray
I am VERY visual and here are some of the things that would work for me;
inoccent/sexy
= mens long sleeve shirt (over size for you) with "sweet" g string underneath (no shoes)
=ultra tight short sport shirt (to just below breasts-no bra) with high cut panties (no shoes)
=small shirt (preferably pastel colours) with a tiny mini (that flairs out), long socks and sport shoes.....if you can do the two pony tails an added plus
= what I call the librarian look......long sleeve blouse, buttoned up to the top button, pencil skirt to just below the knees(prefferably white or slight cream blouse with skirt in a earthy hue), conservatively fashioned mid heel shoes, hair tied up....preferrably in a bun with a hair pin and glasses!!
Sexy/Slutty
=long coat with any lingerie set and high heels
=a lace teddy, high heels
=black bra, g string, suspenders and a short fitted black leather jacket
=PVC or leather cat suite with high heels
=leather/pvc hot pants and crop top
= french nickers with a lace bodice
Dominant (the attitude is of principle concern in this category!!)
=PVC/leather outfit with the addition of some accesories (paddle/whip/collar/mask etc)
=ladies dress suite, with tie, hair tied back and glasses. (don't know......this is just a fantasy that gets me going....)
=long coat covering any choice of under wear (please note the difference betwwen this one and the sexy/slutty one is ATTITUDE!!)
Cliched/expected
=school girl
=french maid
=nurse
I hope me "EXPOSING" my inner self brings some ideas to you and a smile to is face....pre deed.....post deed, a smile to both!!
Well for me, I would like to see my lady in a sexy see thru lace bra and g-strings (matching colour), garter belt with sheer stockings and heels .... dress in a classy and sexy manner ........ great turn on when i start to strip her .....
some costume ideas here
Schoolgirl seems to be popular...but doesn't everyone say that? LOL seems overdone!
I'd say the fairy or witch costume.
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;184320]some costume ideas here
Schoolgirl seems to be popular...but doesn't everyone say that? LOL seems overdone!
I'd say the fairy or witch costume.[/QUOTE]
good one lol:rolleyes:
If you just want to look good, and arnt into roleplay seeing as you two are just warming up about this kind of stuff, Id suggest a simple get up full of a light color and lace.
Color:
White is what you pick if you wana look innocent :).
Black is what you pick if you want to look a little dominant and a bad girl.
Pink is a great color just to look good and a bit innocent.
Red is for a dominant/caring look.
Other great colors are purple, red/black mix, and other light girly colors.
Pick a set with lots of lacey goodness. I suggest you include, thigh-highs, garter belt, g-string, a lacy bra with a lacy see through thingy over it OR a lacy corset that lifts and squeezes your boobs together. The corset is the way to go if you wana tempt him with your figure.
And of course you can put on a hot skirt with a cute top on over it, take him out, tease him all night, and play the chase game. Get home and bone like stoned test bunnies :). Enjoy and let us know what happens!!
My boyfriend is telling me to write: "A Texas Aggie t-shirt". But a cheerleader (for his fav. team of course!) is also liked. :D
[QUOTE=Malfestus;184500]Get home and bone like stoned test bunnies :). [/QUOTE]
Lmfao! Great phrase. My b-day is halloween too!
Anyways about the question - no doubt he is a bit less "reserved" and more passionate then he lets on, I've dated men like that and besides he's a Scorpio we all try and play it cool, but we're more fiery then you'll ever believe ;).
If he hasn't ever done something like this before, I say go cliché and get a school girl outfit, never met a guy who doesn't like that idea. If he has? Just get something lacy and revealing. Could also be as simple as a nice thong and a pushup bra even! Remember, less is more (ironic I know) because 1. its just going to come off and 2. if you overdo it or over-accessorize it takes away from your body and distracts him. Find something that compliments your body, shows some skin, but leaves him begging to take it all off!
Like Learning said,
An oversized (for you) men's long sleeve dress shirt with a G string or lacy panties underneath. To me, that does it the best. Personally, the Teddy and School girl stuff is way over done and very cliched. Pretty much predictable.