In the many years I have visited here, I can recall one real complaint about a b/f not being large enough. This past week there are two women having difficulties with large penis'.
You guys take note. Until it becomes too much for comfort (very rare), we women really do not care about the size. The largest one I ever had was entirely manageable but not real comfortable. It was also overly rigid.
Thanks Brandye:) That is what all of the women that I have talked to say. I'm about as average as a guy can be (6 inches), with a decent girth. My girl friend can orgasm from penetration (although, it's much better from oral) so I'm not worried about it. I know that my size is what most women expect and probably want according to polls. That being said, an extra inch or 2 would be nice for the ol' male ego...but, I'm happy with what I've got :D
well I'm happy enough with 6-6.5" at least i have less of a chance of stabing her, say for example you do woman superior it could be hard for the guy with an overly long penis as she would have to make sure she does not come all the way down and hit something painful in size, whats the logest length on average that can go all the way in without causing pain ? are smaller framed women going to be able to take less ?
Not necessarily, I once watched a TV show about the pornography industry, and there was a particularly tall 'actress' they were interviewing, and she said she was pretty shallow.
I think in general, though it scales down and up (to a degree).
Another thing is, correct me if I'm wrong, women who have had children can take more? I don't know and this is kind of my own question for those women out there.
I'm happy with my 5" to 5.5". If a woman dumps me because of that, then she's not the one I'm looking for anyway. =)
[QUOTE=Brandye;186416]In the many years I have visited here, I can recall one real complaint about a b/f not being large enough. This past week there are two women having difficulties with large penis'.
You guys take note. Until it becomes too much for comfort (very rare), we women really do not care about the size. The largest one I ever had was entirely manageable but not real comfortable. It was also overly rigid.[/QUOTE]
I think I am one of the women you are takling about Brandeye...I made a post in the "Pleasing Him" forum titled "My man is too big to satisfy" and you were the only one who responded and subsequently the only one that offered advice. I know this particular thread is regarding the fact that there is such a thing as being too big but, since my previous thread was one to which you were referring, I figured I could get some help here as well. I posted the afore mentioned thread a few days ago and I would really really like some more advice on this topic (other than the one I got from Brandye) because my b/f brought up my issue with giving him head yesterday and I am still hesitant and need a little help. I know moderators and some members are sticklers about posting in the wrong thread so if after reading this some of you could post some advice in my other thread I would REALLY appreciate it!
Thanks Everyone!!
OOOPS!!! My mistake...in regards to my previous post, it wasn't Brandye who replied to my thread (she replied to the other woman's thread), it was someone else...but still anyone who can help me out that hasn't already, I would appreciate it (Brandye included)!
There is an edit button so you can change posts...
Sorry, I have only been reading/posting on here for a few days...still new to this.....but thanks, I will keep that in mind next time. Thanks Anotheranon
My penis is 5 inches long(below average) and 5.5 inches in cicumference(above average). Must be OK since my wife cums at least once every time we have IC. Before I was married I was dating this girl and we got to the point that we were going to have iC. When she saw my penis she said is that all you have. Well we continued and had IC and she came twice saying that those were her first orgasms. Although a longer penis would look better in the locker room, my size is fine with me and my ladies. Actually a shorter is easier for a lady to do deep throat.
I presume that by IC you mean sex ?
Interesting post...
I think size is a concern for most guys... A least for me... :rolleyes:
Tight vaginas are highly over rated. As a male, I have accepted my size and realize there is little I can do to change things. Ladies on the other hand , can make changes. Frankly, I find tight and especially dry vaginas are a big turn off. Dry vaginas can be overcum by lube. Tight vaginas simply need work.
I'm starting to think it's the ladies who like tight vaginas because they can feel more. As a guy, I have to admit that I like to have room to move around. Big sloppy vagina is good vagina. It seems that a lot of ladies feel that big vagina is a sin. I think and I think a lot of other men, think of a big juicy vagina as an asset. I have never heard any men brag in the locker room on Monday morning about some tight vagina they got over the weekend. All the guys I know are impressed by big vagina sluts/lovers that can take it.
The point is that tight vaginas are highly over rated. To most guy size does matter especially over the long term... When it comes to sex for most men, easy is good. Good intercourse is something to be enjoyed not overcome or endured. Easy access is a plus! It's not a negitive...
I know some of us guys complain about ladies not participating enough but not many have actually said the vagina was too big? I'm not well hung but I can truthfully say not any vagina was so big I didn't enjoy it.
I know this section is for Pleasing Her but I thought you ladies should know...
Hubby_55
no, a tight vagina makes it more painful for the girl. "working on it" is also painful. lube does not solve everything. :|
"I presume that by IC you mean sex ?" IC: Intercourse.
hubby what you say makes sense its not a one way issue of if the guy is big or small but the pairing up of "her" and "him" big penis tight vagina probably not good small penis big vagina not the best either although vagina's are supposed to adapt so there some hope
Ok...do I live in a completely isolated environment here??? I have never ever ever ever met a man who thinks that a tight pussy is bad!! Or likewise who thinks a big/loose pussy is good! Newtolove, I would probably have to agree with you most as I do think that the pairing of him and her is ideal, however, my b/f is 10" and by far the biggest guy I have ever been with. The biggest guy before him that I had slept with was about 6". Every guy I have ever been with has told me that mine is tight and they never complain. Even my b/f now, given his size, said that I am tight and he loves it! His last girl had a baby and while he said that she was kinda loose and it wasn't that bad, he prefers it to be tight. I think the tighter it is the better it feels for a girl, but I guess it also feels better for the guy too because it puts some grip on him.
well I would think (can't speak from experience quite yet) that a tight vagina would make it good for the guy but for the girl could get uncomfortable unless she could loosen up with is supposed to happen as it is the vagina that adapts so we are told the penis hardly does
I think tightness is something women prefer... I have never heard a lady brag about how big and sloppy her vagina happens to be. I can assure you that guys in the locker room comment positively on who could take it all with no problem and not those who could not. Guys will even comment that a lady was big but you won't hear them say it was bad. Big and sloppy are not a negative for guys who know. Ladies on the other hand take pride in saying how tight they are as if that will impress a man... :eek:
A lot depends on how you work it.... :cool:
hubby:
alot of that is because of the negative connotation that women recieve for being "big and sloppy" generally, it means she's a whore in most societies...and what girl wants to announce that to the world?
although i can assure you girls do not "pride" themselves in it, nor does it feel good for them if they are tight.
It all seems very subjective to me.
I don't know how long or uhh..round my penis is. I honestly don't care. The important thing is that it works for my lady and beyond that I can still use it for its other functions. Why would I need it to be big?
On an interesting side note though, my girlfriend and I were having sex the other day and I decided to try a pillow under her to allow for better penetration. I'd never done it before, so I didn't expect it to do anything but apparently I went too deep, a little rough. She didn't like that much.
Couldn't that be considered a bad thing?
[QUOTE=LovinItSingle;186791]Ok....[/QUOTE]
I appologize for the bad quotation, but I just wanted to let my post show that I was answering you, LovingItSingle. :cool:
My husband is also pretty big. I know that I will probably never be able to deep throat him. That said, most of the nerves in the penis is placed on "the head" and so I use my mouth and tounge on the head, and my hand on the shaft. It works fine for us, but HE has got to be really careful, he can't really ever take over, he has to lie still otherwise I might accidentally puke (yes, it HAS happened, it was NOT a succes... heh).
So when it comes to oral sex, my advice is to focus on the head and letting the head in and out of your mouth, and then using your hand on the shaft simultanously in the same rythm.
As to penetration is can sometimes be irritating for him that he has to be so controlled and careful. What we do is that we wrap a scarf several times around the base of his penis - not tight, but in a way that will keep it in place. The scarf will when make a physical barrier and prevent him from entering too deeply and hurt me; and he can just focus on the nice feeling, instead of concentration on the penetration et cetera.
We always use lube, so everything is nice and wet, and I almost always have to be warmed up with some fingers before he can penetrate. We have also bought a dildo a bit smaller than him which is also helping me to "open up" and make the penetration go smoother.
Hope you can use some of the advice and you may feel welcome to write to me over "private messages" if you want more tips ect. I just don't want to spam Brandye's threat too much. :)
Orow, did you enjoy doing deep throat to begin with..?? and how was it altogether.. because I'm very uncomfortable with tat part.. I tend to puke most of the time and have given up the idea ever since..
help me Orow..